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Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 19 March 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

 

At one of his Wednesday audiences in June of 2018, Pope Francis asked Catholics to consider their understanding of faith and faithfulness. He said the Ten Commandments can be experienced as heartless rules imposed on mankind by an oppressive God or, rather, words given by a father to his children in order to protect them from harm. “Man is in front of this crossroads: does God impose things on me, or take care of me? Are his commandments only a law, or do they contain a word? Is God a master or a father? Are we slaves, or children?”

Is your experience of the Church compliance, or commitment?

Most of us experience this “battle,” he said, which takes place both inside and outside of the person, and “is continually present: a thousand times we must choose between a slave mentality and a mentality of children,” he said, adding that the Holy Spirit is a spirit “of sons, it is the Spirit of Jesus.” “A spirit of slaves can only welcome the law in an oppressive way, and it can produce two opposite results: either a life of duties and obligations or a violent reaction of rejection.”

The whole of the Christian life, he said, is making the passage “from the letter of the law to the Spirit who gives life. Jesus is the word of the Father, he is not the condemnation of the Father.” A commandment or rule does not invite dialogue and interaction, but a word does.

From my experience as a pastor, I have watched people have a wide range of reactions with regard to change. I experience this, myself. The unfamiliarity of change can be unsettling. New realities often require a growth curve that can be challenging. Change requires us to think differently or see things in a new way, or at least recognize a truth we have always known in a new way. Change demands faith and hope, and sometimes these are not as strong as our uncertainty. Yet, we have to discern the kind of change that is necessary for growth and embrace it. If we aren’t growing, we are not improving and thriving.

I don’t know anyone who would look around, or even at themselves, and say everything is perfect. I can’t think of a single thing that could be better. I want everything to stay just as it is. That being the case, then, we need to discern with prayer, prepare with prudence, and gather the strength to do what we must do. It is not always easy to accept change, but change is essential if we want to see positive results.

Nowhere is this more true than in the spiritual life. We are challenged every day with choices we make to move forward or fall backward. A lot of life can get in the way, but the worst foe is complacency. “Good enough” really isn’t.

Lent is a time to embrace the formation and conversion that God made us humans undertake. May his grace inspire us and his strength help all of us to carry through.

 

The Lord be with you,

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 19 March 2023

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Worship Aid for the 4th Sunday of Lent

fleur cross logo Lenten Observances

  • Fasting: Food equivalent to one regular meal, one small meal - Ash Wednesday and Good Friday
  • Abstinence:  No meat - Ash Wednesday and ALL Fridays during Lent

fleur cross logo Lenten Soup Suppers: Fridays at 6 pm in the School Cafeteria.

fleur cross logo Stations of the Cross: Fridays at 7 pm in English, 8 pm in Spanish

fleur cross logo Parish Penance Service:  Wednesday, March 29, 6:30 pm

fleur cross logo Lent ConfessionsWednesdays 6:30-8 pm and Saturdays 3:30-4:30 pm (as usual), Please plan to come early in the season to save time.

fleur cross logo Eucharistic Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament:  Join us every Wednesday during Lent in the Chapel from 7-8 pm.

fleur cross logo Join us on Monday, March 20, for our monthly Taizé Prayer Service, at 8 pm. Come pray for Christian unity in our community and in the world. All Christians are warmly invited; invite your friends.

fleur cross logo Monday, March 27, is the next Catholic Women's Group Dinner at 5 pm at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 4th Monday of every month.  No need to RSVP; just come and enjoy the delicious food and sparkling fellowship.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

fleur cross logo The Seven Sisters Apostolate is a new ministry coming to Saint Bernadette. It is a call to strengthen the Church by ensuring that a Holy Hour is prayed each day of the week for the sole intention of a specific priest. Join us on Tuesday, March 28, at 7 pm in the Bradican Room to learn more. Contact Trish Pirowski at 603-833-5540 or 1986sailboat@gmail.com.

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 12 March 2023

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Worship Aid for the 3rd Sunday of Lent

fleur cross logo Lenten Observances

  • Fasting: Food equivalent to one regular meal, one small meal - Ash Wednesday and Good Friday
  • Abstinence:  No meat - Ash Wednesday and ALL Fridays (special dispensation for St. Patrick's Day this year)

fleur cross logo Lenten Soup Suppers: Fridays at 6 pm in the School Cafeteria.

fleur cross logo Stations of the Cross: Fridays at 7 pm in English, 8 pm in Spanish

fleur cross logo Parish Penance Service:  Wednesday, March 29, 6:30 pm

fleur cross logo Lent ConfessionsWednesdays 6:30-8 pm and Saturdays 3:30-4:30 pm (as usual), Please plan to come early in the season to save time.

fleur cross logo Eucharistic Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament:  Join us every Wednesday during Lent in the Chapel from 7-8 pm.

fleur cross logo Lenten Evening of Reflection for Women:  Please join us for a Lenten Evening of Reflection on March 18 from 7-9 pm. The evening will include a talk by Fr. Rich and the opportunity to get to know other women of the parish. RSVPs appreciated. For more information or to register, please email StBWWP@gmail.com.

fleur cross logo Join us on Monday, March 20, for our monthly Taizé Prayer Service, at 8 pm. Come pray for Christian unity in our community and in the world. All Christians are warmly invited; invite your friends.

fleur cross logo Monday, March 27, is the next Catholic Women's Group Dinner at 5 pm at Saratoga Pizzeria, 8050 Rolling Road.  We meet for this casual meal on the 4th Monday of every month.  No need to RSVP; just come and enjoy the delicious food and sparkling fellowship.  For more information, please email us at women@stbernpar.org.

fleur cross logo If you couldn't fill out a Bishop's Lenten Appeal pledge envelope and need more time to prayerfully consider pledging to this vital appeal, you may return your envelope any time. The funds from the BLA provide a way for leaders of all ministries, volunteers, and people from all walks of life to grow as a community to enrich parish life, teach the faith, help those in need, and inspire faith in those outside the Church. You may make a gift at: www.arlingtondiocese.org/BLA.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 12 March 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

I’m hoping you were able to take advantage of our parish 40 Hours’ Adoration and Mission Talks this week. It is a sacred time – not that you can’t drop in at Church for a visit anytime – that is a special focus of our parish praying together. Lent always seems to be a challenging time for me anyway, but especially this year it was good to keep refocusing on how Jesus is present to us all the time.

Especially I enjoyed the talks by Fr. Don Heet. His point about how 60 years have passed since the Second Vatican Council really hit home. Anyone younger than me was born afterward: for most people the Vatican II has been allowed to fade into ancient history. 60 years before the Council the world wars and great depression had not happened yet. 60 years before that the world was still twenty years before the Civil War. So much happens it is easy not to think about the things that really matter. Our mission talks this week brought back to me many of the things that I hold precious about the Church and why I became a priest in the first place. One person remarked this week how she wished she had heard a lot of this long ago. Suddenly so many things make sense.

When I was a kid the priest was like God, and Father didn’t mind you thinking so. It was for partly this reason that I wasn’t interested. It seemed like a divide I would never cross. Priests were holy, we were not.

Vatican II defined the Church in a new way, and as Fr. Don told us, it was probably for this reason that the Dogmatic Constitution on the Church, Lumen gentium, was most debated and took the longest for the Council to write. Rather than defining the Church by the hierarchy as had been done for centuries, politics were set aside. The Church was first defined as the People of God and second, the hierarchy, as those who serve the People of God. I remember first learning this in college and later in seminary. Suddenly the ministerial priesthood seemed possible for someone like me, because all of us already participate in the common priesthood of Christ as baptized persons. This teaching of priesthood as something in which all the baptized participate, in turn, helped me to understand that “People of God” didn’t mean “believers” as was originally understood with the Hebrew people of the first covenant. People of God, literally, means all the people that God made. Because we are made by God, we have an inherent dignity that calls all of us to a reverence and charity for all people that forms the foundation of Jesus’ mandate to serve.

Today Pope Francis continuously warns the Church about falling back into a clericalism which would allow a priest to set himself apart from, or above others, or encourage such attitudes among the faithful.

Fr. Don, in a very effective way, presented all of these reforms of Vatican II not as new innovations, but rather the restoration of many things which needed to be reintroduced into the life of the Church. It has inspired me once again to plan a series of parish classes to help everyone know what it really means to say, “I am a Catholic.”

The Lord be with you,

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 5 March 2023

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Worship Aid for the 2nd Sunday of Lent

fleur cross logo LENTEN OBSERVANCES

  • Fasting: Food equivalent to one regular meal, one small meal - Ash Wednesday and Good Friday
  • Abstinence:  No meat - Ash Wednesday and ALL Fridays (special dispensation for St. Patrick's Day this year)
  • Stations of the Cross: Fridays at 7 pm in English, 8 pm in Spanish
  • Parish Penance Service: Wednesday, March 29, 6:30 pm
  • Lent Confessions: Wednesdays, 6:30-8 pm, Saturdays, 3:30-4:30 pm (as usual), Please plan to come early in the season to save time.
  • 40 Hours and Parish Lenten Mission: Sign up for adoration in the booklet in the vestibule for 40 Hours which begins on Sunday, March 5. We will need two people for adoration round the clock from Sunday evening through Tuesday evening. There will be two additional Masses on Monday and Tuesday evenings at 6:30 pm. Fr. Don Heet will lead Parish Mission talks, an Oblate of Saint Francis de Sales at St. John Neumann in Reston, who will speak about Vatican II and why it matters.

    • Sunday, March 5 at 6:30 pm: The Constitutions on the Liturgy and Revelation
    • Monday, March 6 at 7:30 pm: The Constitution on the Church and the Declaration of Religious LibertyTuesday,
    • March 7 at 7:30 pm: The Constitution on the Church in the Modern World and the Declaration on Relations of the Church with Non-Christian Religions
  • Eucharistic Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament:  Join us every Wednesday during Lent in the Chapel from 7-8 pm.

  • Lenten Evening of Reflection for Women:  Please join us for a Lenten Evening of Reflection on March 18 from 7-9 pm. The evening will include a talk by Fr. Rich and the opportunity to get to know other women of the parish. RSVPs appreciated. For more information or to register, please email StBWWP@gmail.com.

fleur cross logo If you couldn't fill out a Bishop's Lenten Appeal pledge envelope and need more time to prayerfully consider pledging to this vital appeal, you may return your envelope any time. The funds from the BLA provide a way for leaders of all ministries, volunteers, and people from all walks of life to grow as a community to enrich parish life, teach the faith, help those in need, and inspire faith in those outside the Church. You may make a gift at: www.arlingtondiocese.org/BLA.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 5 March 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

First, if I may, a couple of brief housekeeping items:

1) We are at 77% of our goal of the Bishop’s Lenten Appeal - and we are very grateful for your gifts and pledges! This 77% ($405,000!) is being given by only 11% of registered parishioners. I ask that the remaining 1/4 of our goal be accomplished by affordable gifts or monthly pledges by people who have not given before. Let’s double that percentage of participation.

2) Each week as I prepare the bulletin and type in the Mass intentions on the last page we usually have 3 or 4 Masses which are unclaimed. I usually just fill them in with something or someone. Each Mass has one intention that may be announced at the beginning of the Mass so that all in the church can include them in their prayers that day. These are opportunities to pray for loved ones which are going unused. Mostly they are 7am Masses which might indicate that people are thinking they need to be present for a Mass they request. That is not the case at all, as the benefit of the Mass applies to the salvation of whoever is named regardless of who is present. It is a great way to observe birthdays or anniversaries. There is a customary, but not required, donation of $10 for a Mass intention and it comes with a gift card for either a living person or in memory of a deceased person. Please stop in at the parish office.

This could actually be a great Lenten observance that you could make, even if you can’t get to daily Mass, to consider scheduling community prayers in memory of those who have gone before us. It is the ultimate compassionate act. In as much as we try to exercise empathy for others during the season, we could extend these acts to all those in the Mystical Body of Christ, both living and deceased.

In fact, it might be worthwhile to commit some Lent time to renewing the practice of empathy in our lives. Many people became somebody different in the pandemic. If you look at yourself and wonder how you got here, it is not too late to reverse the steps and intentionally ask God in prayer to guide you. Reach out to others with care and concern. Let others help you. It’s possible to say that we’ve not rebounded as well as we hoped.

I ran across an article from a year ago in an online mental health blog. It said, “It feels that pain is present no matter where we turn, and our empathy is rapidly depleting. Simply put: It hurts to care. Unfortunately, no one is immune to dwindling empathy. As a clinician, I witness clients and colleagues alike lament over the state of our world. I, too, feel the drain of my emotional resources at times. Decreased empathy presents as an inability to witness and aid the suffering of others because we are overwhelmed with our current circumstances.” One social worker wrote, “The pressures and uncertainty of the world affected my ability to show up for others.”

So, let us commit to praying and caring for one another.

The Lord be with you,

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 26 February

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

This week the work of Lent begins. Like I said last week, maybe it’s not the heavy lifting you would like to think you can do, but something realistic and able to be accomplished. I was reading Pope Francis’ message for Lent 2023, and in the first three paragraphs, I have found a message better than I could ever come up with:

The Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke all recount the episode of the Transfiguration of Jesus. There we see the Lord’s response to the failure of his disciples to understand him. Shortly before, there had been a real clash between the Master and Simon Peter, who, after professing his faith in Jesus as the Christ, the Son of God, rejected his prediction of the passion and the cross. Jesus had firmly rebuked him: “Get behind me, Satan! You are a scandal to me, because you do not think according to God, but according to men!” (Mt 16:23). Following this, “six days later, Jesus took with him Peter, James, and John his brother and led them away to a high mountain” (Mt 17:1).

The Gospel of the Transfiguration is proclaimed every year on the Second Sunday of Lent. During this liturgical season, the Lord takes us with him to a place apart. While our ordinary commitments compel us to remain in our usual places and our often repetitive and sometimes boring routines, during Lent, we are invited to ascend “a high mountain” in the company of Jesus and to live a particular experience of spiritual discipline – ascesis – as God’s holy people.

Lenten penance is a commitment, sustained by grace, to overcoming our lack of faith and our resistance to following Jesus on the way of the cross. This is precisely what Peter and the other disciples needed to do. To deepen our knowledge of the Master, to fully understand and embrace the mystery of his salvation, accomplished in total self-giving inspired by love, we must allow ourselves to be taken aside by him and to detach ourselves from mediocrity and vanity. We need to set out on the journey, an uphill path that, like a mountain trek, requires effort, sacrifice, and concentration.

Join us on this journey of Lent as we walk together as a community, not a collection of individuals seeking personal benefits, but a family who wants to know the Lord more deeply. Let us intentionally welcome him into our midst in our homes, in our gatherings, and in our prayer, and be attentive to his words for us. And let us be truly grateful for all that he does for us in his compassion and mercy. Compassion is, perhaps, the human experience most vital to our transformation. Literally, “suffering with,” we enter into the lives and needs of others, setting ourselves aside. Compassion is the virtue that finds its fullest meaning in the Son of God becoming Man, who became one of us so that he could experience the fullness of our suffering – and joy – and give it meaning and purpose.

The Lord be with you,

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 26 February

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Worship Aid for the 1st Sunday of Lent

fleur cross logo LENTEN OBSERVANCES

  • Fasting: Food equivalent to one regular meal, one small meal - Ash Wednesday and Good Friday
  • Abstinence:  No meat - Ash Wednesday and ALL Fridays (special dispensation for St. Patrick's Day this year)
  • Stations of the Cross: Fridays at 7 pm in English, 8 pm in Spanish
  • Parish Penance Service: Wednesday, March 29, 6:30 pm
  • Lent Confessions: Wednesdays, 6:30-8 pm, Saturdays, 3:30-4:30 pm (as usual), Please plan to come early in the season to save time.
  • 40 Hours and Parish Lenten Mission: Sign up for adoration in the booklet in the vestibule for 40 Hours which begins on Sunday, March 5. We will need two people for adoration round the clock from Sunday evening through Tuesday evening. There will be two additional Masses on Monday and Tuesday evenings at 6:30 pm. Fr. Don Heet will lead Parish Mission talks, an Oblate of Saint Francis de Sales at St. John Neumann in Reston, who will speak about Vatican II and why it matters.

    • Sunday, March 5 at 6:30 pm: The Constitutions on the Liturgy and Revelation
    • Monday, March 6 at 7:30 pm: The Constitution on the Church and the Declaration of Religious LibertyTuesday,
    • March 7 at 7:30 pm: The Constitution on the Church in the Modern World and the Declaration on Relations of the Church with Non-Christian Religions
  • Eucharistic Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament:  Join us every Wednesday during Lent in the Chapel from 7-8 pm.

  • Lenten Evening of Reflection for Women:  Please join us for a Lenten Evening of Reflection on March 18 from 7-9 pm. The evening will include a talk by Fr. Rich and the opportunity to get to know other women of the parish. RSVPs appreciated. For more information or to register, please email StBWWP@gmail.com.

fleur cross logo If you couldn't fill out a Bishop's Lenten Appeal pledge envelope and need more time to prayerfully consider pledging to this vital appeal, you may return your envelope any time. The funds from the BLA provide a way for leaders of all ministries, volunteers, and people from all walks of life to grow as a community to enrich parish life, teach the faith, help those in need, and inspire faith in those outside the Church. You may make a gift at: www.arlingtondiocese.org/BLA.

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 19 February

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Worship Aid for the 7th Sunday of Ordinary Time

 

fleur cross logo Knights of Columbus Springfield Council 6153 will host a spaghetti dinner and trivia contest this Saturday, February 18, in the school cafeteria. Dinner is from 5:30–7 pm, followed by trivia until 9 pm. Donations will benefit Virginia Special Olympics and Saint Bernadette School. Please click here to make your dinner reservation by February 10. The trivia team size is limited to six people. Beer, wine, soda, and water will be available. The spaghetti dinners will include gluten-free options. See you there!

fleur cross logo The Knights of Columbus Springfield Council 6153 will conduct its annual Basketball Free Throw contest on Sunday, February 19, in the school gym from Noon until 4 pm. All parish youth aged 9-14 are encouraged to compete. Winners will receive a basketball prize and be eligible for district and state competitions. Parents and adults are also invited to show off their free throw skills, with women's and men's winners awarded a gift card. Make this a family event and plan to attend.

fleur cross logo Ash Wednesday is February 22. As last year, we will have Masses at 7 and 9 am, Noon, and 7:30 pm (bilingual). There will also be a Liturgy of the Word (without Communion) at 6 pm.

fleur cross logo LENTEN OBSERVANCES

  • Fasting: Food equivalent to one regular meal, one small meal - Ash Wednesday and Good Friday
  • Abstinence:  No meat - Ash Wednesday and ALL Fridays (special dispensation for St. Patrick's Day this year)
  • Stations of the Cross: Fridays at 7 pm in English, 8 pm in Spanish
  • Parish Penance Service: Wednesday, March 29, 6:30 pm
  • Lent Confessions: Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 pm, Saturdays, 3:30-4:30 pm (as usual), Please plan to come early in the season to avoid running out of time.
  • 40 Hours and Parish Lenten Mission:  Sunday, March 5 – Tuesday, March 7.

fleur cross logo This is Follow-up Sunday for the Bishop’s Lenten Appeal. If you weren’t able to fill out a pledge envelope last weekend and need more time to prayerfullly
consider making a pledge to this important appeal, you may return your envelope any time. The funds from the BLA provide a way for leaders of all ministries, volunteers, people from all walks of life, to grow as a community to enrich parish life, teach the faith, help those in need and inspire faith in those outside the Church. You may make a gift at: www.arlingtondiocese.org/BLA.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 19 February

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Lent always take us by surprise, somehow. This week is Ash Wednesday and liturgically we take a sharp turn in the road. No more alleluias. The prayers and even the sounds of the songs take a more meditative and mournful tone. We are sinners all the time, but go to work now. As we go forward, we are acutely aware of what is behind us in the rear-view mirror to help us, with God’s grace, as we consider the path ahead and, perhaps, chart a course redirecting our lives on a path that is healthier (spiritually and physically), and more pleasing to God, and faithful to his map for us.

I remember, about ten years ago, I had a few pretty serious abdominal surgeries after my first nearly fatal colonoscopy. I had to accept the reality that I would be limited in many ways for the rest of my life. I remember the doctor telling me that, for a while, I was not to lift more than 10 pounds. Perhaps this could be the starting point for all of us during this season of Lent: let’s admit where we are in our spiritual lives, and do what we can to heal. Maybe we don’t start with the heavy lifting. It may not need to be some grand plan of total personal makover. That is a lot to take on, and I find that such intense temporary measures often don’t last, even temporarily.

Let’s begin with what we know we can do. We can pray a little more, and be a little more engaged in community prayer. We can come to church on time, with even a little time to center ourselves spiritually before Mass begins so the impact of what we do can touch who we are, both as persons and as a community. Beauty surrounds us. We can open our eyes and hearts to the goodness of God even in difficult people and circumstances we enter into every day. We can decide to be kind and respectful to people, even when our first impulse (especially after the pandemic) might be otherwise. If your reaction is to curse someone, say a quick prayer for them, instead. Remember, as a Christian you don’t have to like everyone, but you have to love them.

As we heard last weekend, simply let your yes mean yes and your no mean no. Why muddy the world with more opinion? There is already too much of that going on and, frankly, people are just confused. As my mom used to say, all your words, before being spoken, must pass through three gates: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? Imagine how many fewer thousands of acres we would need to store all this nonsense for future generations in data centers.

After we have accomplished these things, you might consider adopting a habit of less TV or chocolate. These things, after all, are good for you, but not really helping all of us in this season of Lent.

Please consult this bulletin for all the information it offers for the upcoming season of Lent. We have Forty Hours and our Parish Mission in a week and a half with Oblate priest, Fr. Don Heet, speaking on the place of the Church in the modern world seen through the eyes of Vatican II, adoration and confession Wednesdays, soup supper and Stations of the Cross Fridays, and our big Penance Service with 17 priests this year on Wednesday evening, March 29. And, before we know it, Resurrection.

The Lord be with you,