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Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 2 October 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

It is hard to believe... soon our biennial school auction will be here!

If you weren’t here in 2018, something wonderful happened as we welcomed everyone to “The Music Man” Auction honoring our award-winning band director, Barry Ward. It was the first time that all the parish was intentionally invited to the auction, and the parish really turned out! It was a really good surprise that galvanized the unity between our parish and school “communities” as we realized that we could join together in supporting this primary ministry of the parish. Many people said, “We didn’t think the parish would come,” and others said, “We can’t believe we were never invited!”

The auction in 2018 was in person, of course, and 282 tickets were sold - gross receipts for the evening were $104,000. We built a huge gazebo in the center of the gym for our decoration, the same gazebo that now stands in the center of the playground/parking lot behind the school.

2020, of course, was a little different. It was entirely online, and the dinner was grab-and-go, as people ate dinner and watched the auction online. Even so, 183 people bought tickets, and the gross receipts for the auction was $63,000.

With so much going on in the school last spring, we didn’t think we could pull off another auction, so it was scheduled for November 4: One month from now. There is much to be done.

We have proposals from the caterer and the band, and we need to sell tickets. Tickets are $100 per person, $750 for a table of ten. I am buying a table of 10 and still paying $1,000 for the good of the school.

Parishioners, we need you to get involved in this loving project. Buy tickets. If you have a business, consider a sponsorship - we have a list of opportunities available. If you have an item or service which we can include in the auction, you can help us out in this way. Your participation comes with advertising for you. We will have a silent auction that will be open for several weeks before the night of the auction, as well as some well-selected items which will be auctioned live at the dinner on auction night. At the end of the evening we will have “Gifts from the heart,” an opportunity to raise auction paddles and donate whatever you thought you might have spent at the auction that evening. All of it is for the children.

It is a skilled balancing act, the ministry of Catholic education. You must try in every way to keep Catholic schools affordable, and at the same time provide the most excellent opportunity for our children that we are able to provide. At Saint Bernadette, we have one of the most gifted, talented teams of faculty and staff that you will find anywhere. Saint Bernadette is known for being one of the best. We also have a highly-developed Learning Resource department to provide special services to those students who need a little more attention. Especially after COVID, the need is greater than ever.

Most importantly, we provide an environment where compassion and virtue can thrive. We learn about Jesus, and how to become Jesus in this world for others. This, most of all, makes us who we are and sets us apart.

Come, help us be successful... and have a great auction, as well.

 

The Lord be with you,

 

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 24 September 2023

Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the Twenty-fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time

fleur cross logo The 23rd Saint Bernadette School auction will be held on November 4. This year’s theme is “Sailing into the Future”. The event will be held in the school gym from 7-10 pm, featuring an optional Captain’s Reception, silent auction, dinner, live auction, and live music. Tickets are available online. See the bulletin or visit the parish website for more information.

fleur cross logo The parish will host a celebration in honor of Father Cedric Wilson’s anniversary of ordination on October 22 following the 11 am and 1 pm Mass. The event will be held in the school gym. Please join us in honoring Father Cedric’s 50 years of ordination as a religious and 45 years as a priest.

fleur cross logo Celebrate the Feast of St. Francis of Assisi by having your pets blessed! The Blessing of the Animals will take place by the Grotto next Sunday, October 1 at 2:30 pm.

fleur cross logo St. Bernadette will be participating in the 36th Annual Life Chain on Sunday, October 1, from 2:30-3:30 pm in front of Key Middle School. Come and pray in public witness to the sanctity of human life!

fleur cross logo Join us in celebrating the Anniversary of our Church Dedication on Saturday, October 14th, with Mass at 8 am.

fleur cross logo All are invited to our Saint Bernadette Parish Picnic on Saturday, October 21, from 1-5 pm. There will be great music, food, and games for the whole family. Volunteers are needed! Please get in touch with the parish office.

 

 

 

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 24 September 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

At Masses last week, I explained the challenges we face in trying to do the work that a parish does simply because of our lack of space. The Parish Life Weekend/Ministry Fair was the perfect example. We tried to make it work with tents up at the front of the church and tents in the parking lot below the steps. Ministries in the lower tents didn’t get nearly the visitors as those outside the church. Donuts drew people away from the tents. And not to mention when it rained... there we were, a few, in the rain.

Civilization has proven that there are solutions to these problems.

I asked everyone to imagine our new building with open doors opposite the front doors of the church and a large room where all can gather together equally for those seeking to serve as well as donuts. I got a sense that the limitations of our facility actually caused us to disperse more quickly than on a normal Sunday rather than draw us together.

Brothers and sisters, it is remarkable what we have accomplished in two phases of pledging to the Capital Campaign. 615 families in the first phase and 499 families in the second (256 families participated in both) have given to the parish over $6.5 million dollars. We are so close! And we are also realistic that the longer it takes to get this going, the more it will cost. Construction budgets are constantly in flux, and there is no way to know all the hidden costs until you are in the middle of building. They grow bigger.

I mentioned in my homily that every year we are asked by the diocese to report what services our parish offers to the community. It goes through a list of ministries, and we simply say “yes” or “no.” Mostly we say “no” because we simply don’t have the facilities to accomplish them. I put the list to the left and have listed the ministries we DO in red (Please see bulletin). You’ll notice these mostly are things that don’t require meeting rooms.

A parish has an obligation to fulfill these needs for those among us who are least and most vulnerable, whether economically, emotionally, or legally. I am reminded of something we learned in the seminary. The reason that Christianity grew so quickly, even under harsh and dangerous circumstances, was that people saw Christians were different. It was the love they had for one another and for strangers that made Christianity irresistible in a culture that was so pagan and ruthless. One example we were given stays clearly in my memory. If Romans had a baby that was unwanted or had some kind of defect, it was common to go and leave them in the hills to die of exposure. The Christian community would go out and bring them home as their own children and care for them. Radically unRoman, to be sure, caring for the least and most vulnerable.

I wonder if such a lack of witness today has allowed people to forget why we are Christian in the first place. Holiness is not self-centered devotion to God; it is caring for all he has made and cares about, especially our neighbor, regardless of whether you agree with her or him or not. It is love.

If you didn’t have a chance to respond to the Ministry Fair last weekend, don’t worry. Parish Life Weekend isn’t over, it is just a beginning.

 

The Lord be with you,

 

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 17 September 2023

Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the Twenty-fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time

fleur cross logo Please note! The Sunday 5 pm Mass has changed to 5:30 pm.

fleur cross logo Our Parish Life Ministry Fair is this weekend. Ministry leaders and representatives will be providing information about various ministries for you to be involved in this year. Please fill out the commitment page in the bulletin with your time and talent, then drop them in the basket at the tables or return them to the office.

fleur cross logo The 23rd Saint Bernadette School auction will be held on November 4. This year’s theme is “Sailing into the Future”. The event will be held in the school gym from 7-10 pm, featuring an optional Captain’s Reception, silent auction, dinner, live auction, and live music. Tickets are available online. See the bulletin or visit the parish website for more information.

fleur cross logo Join us for Taizé Prayer on Monday, September 18 at 8 pm. Come pray for unity in our community and in the world. All are warmly invited; invite your friends.

fleur cross logo It’s not too late to join this year’s RCIA program. Classes are held on Mondays at 7 pm in the Bradican Room. If you are considering joining the Catholic Church, check out our program.

fleur cross logo The parish will host a celebration in honor of Father Cedric Wilson’s anniversary of ordination on October 22 following the 11 am and 1 pm Mass. The event will be held in the school gym. Please join us in honoring Father Cedric’s 50 years of ordination as a religious and 45 years as a priest.

fleur cross logo All 6th-8th graders are invited to join us for games, fellowship, and popsicles this Wednesday, September 20th, from 6:45-8 pm in the gym. Please see the bulletin for more details.

 

 

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 17 September 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Welcome to our ministry fair and Parish Life Weekend 2023!

This is the opportunity for you to put your faith in action in serving and sharing your gifts to build up our community in the whole Christ. We are not complete without each and every one of you.

In the epistle of Saint James (2:14-26) we read, “For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.” True faith in Christ always produces good works. It became a controversial text at the time of the Protestant Reformation, particularly with Martin Luther, because it seems to contradict Saint Paul’s “faith alone” teachings which proclaim the total gift of faith which we could never earn or deserve. The Catholic Church at the time literally taught that you could buy your way into heaven if you were generous enough in the offertory.

Saint James, here speaking as the Apostle and leader of the Jewish Community in Jerusalem, is telling us that faith is given for a reason. It must be fruitful so that the gift of God is shared. God is the giver, and God is the gift. We do this by serving one another, and any service that is needed for the good of the community we call ministry. The word ministry is thrown about rather carelessly sometimes. Ministry doesn’t exist because I want it or it feels good; it is our response to a need. Two readings from Scripture at Mass, two lectors. Five servers because there are five basic roles for those who serve at the altar. Choir? The more, the merrier. Most ministries are unlimited as long as there is enough space for those ministries to happen.

There is also a distinction which needs to be made because many people are confused about signing up for stuff in the parish. Although you will probably see sign-up sheets to attend different ministries, the Ministry Fair is intended to recruit those who will lead ministries, not benefit from them. A good example would be Religious Education. We are not signing up people to attend catechism classes or Bible studies. Today we are looking for those who are going to teach or lead them.

This weekend I ask that everyone choose a way to serve in the parish. It can be as small as a Can-a-Week for the poor who are served by ECHO or as generous as your imagination and capacity allow.

This is how we build community – and, by the way, we become better, more faithful, Christ-like people in the process.

We will have some ministry catalogues this weekend, but you can review the nice color version and learn about our many various ministries at our parish website.

Visit with ministry leaders in the tents outside the church before or after Mass this weekend. You may encounter a table for a ministry that doesn’t have anyone to talk with. This is your special call. If it is a ministry that you feel you would be interested in, take the place behind the table, greet others with interest, and we’ll figure it all out later.

The Lord be with you,

 

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 10 September 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

This week in a conversation, someone told me they had Imposter Syndrome. I had never heard of it; apparently, it is a thing. I asked what it was, and the person told me, “I’m not really the person you think I am. You know, the old ‘what I have done and what I have failed to do’ thing. I don’t think you would think I’m such a good person if you really knew me.”

I looked it up. In my search, I typed “impost,” and already the first hit was imposter syndrome, so it must be on people’s minds. Here is what it says: Imposter syndrome is the condition of feeling anxious and not experiencing success internally, despite being high-performing in external, objective ways. This condition often results in people feeling like “a fraud” or “a phony” and doubting their abilities. It can come along with conditions like ADHD or in people who are perfectionists and people-pleasers. But it also can result from seeds of self-doubt that others have planted in us in the past. We replay those recordings of others’ judgmental words or actions, which have left scars. Scars can stay a long time, maybe always, and we can begin to see them as damaged and ourselves as broken. Notice in the first paragraph how a judgment from the past might easily become the expectation of being judged in the present. You might not even be able to hear positive feedback.

It’s too bad you don’t hear people say something like, “I’m [stronger] than you think I am.” Put your words in the brackets: more creative, kinder, more loyal, more generous.

I mentioned in a homily a couple of months ago I was at an interfaith dialogue with people of six or seven different religions. We were given homework: between now and the next meeting, sit in front of a mirror, look at yourself in the eyes. Ask yourself, “Who are you?” ...for 30 minutes.

I only got through a few minutes. I’m not sure 30 is even possible. But I have thought about it a lot since. Adjectives don’t answer the question; therefore, our identity cannot be based on others’ judgments. They aren’t who we are. Imposter is not an option!

Since the question was posed in the context of an interreligious dialogue, I think some answers might be very similar. Maybe not the adjective religious, but there is a layer of my being that is Catholic. A man, a priest, definitely. A child of God. God is there in my mirror, too.

We haven’t had that follow-up meeting yet, but I’m pretty sure this is where that conversation was intended to go. Whoever believes in a personal creator, God has some kind of relationship that defines who they are in a profound way and sets them on a path, paths that will converge either here or in the Kingdom to come if we follow them.

God made each one of us different, with a different constellation of gifts which he intends for us to use in service to others. The uniqueness of each of us is only fulfilled when we grow with each other in community. My answer to “Who are you?” also includes my context, a member of the Body of Christ
at Saint Bernadette. You are in my mirror, too, and our relationship defines us.

It’s Parish Life Weekend: Let’s grow together in community by working together in the vineyard!

The Lord be with you,

 

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 10 September 2023

Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the Twenty-third Sunday in Ordinary Time

fleur cross logo Please note! The Sunday 5 pm Mass has changed to 5:30 pm.

fleur cross logo The Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults begins September 11, and we welcome all who are interested in becoming Catholic. Please get in touch with the parish office for more information.

fleur cross logo Our Parish Life Ministry Fair next weekend, September 16 & 17. Please take advantage after Mass to visit with ministry leaders and representatives outside under the tents about various ministries and choose one for your commitment this year.

fleur cross logo The Diocese is hosting a pilgrimage to the National Shrine of Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton and the National Shrine Grotto of Our Lady of Lourdes in Emmitsburg, MD, on October 7th. To learn more about the pilgrimage, visit the Diocesan website. 

fleur cross logo Catholic Charities is offering English and Citizenship classes every Tuesday and Thursday starting September 26. Registrations will be held on September 19 from 7-9 pm in the school.

fleur cross logo High Schoolers are invited to join us for a bonfire and s'mores this Tuesday, the 12th. We’ll meet at the rectory patio from 7 pm until 8:30 pm. Please see the bulletin for more details.

fleur cross logo On September 16, Fr. Wilson celebrates 50 years in religious life and the 45th anniversary of his ordination. We will be planning a reception – watch the bulletin for details.

 

 

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 3 September 2023

Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the Twenty-second Sunday in Ordinary Time

fleur cross logo Please note! The Sunday 5 pm Mass has changed to 5:30 pm.

fleur cross logo The Parish Offices will be closed on Monday, 4 September, in observance of Labor Day. There will be no 7 am Mass.

fleur cross logo The Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults begins September 11, and we welcome all who are interested in becoming Catholic. Please get in touch with the parish office for more information.

fleur cross logo All 6th-8th graders are invited to join us for games and fellowship in the gym this Wednesday, September 6th, from 6:45-8 pm. We’ll meet every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month.

fleur cross logo All High Schoolers are invited to join us for dinner next Saturday, September 9th, after the 5pm vigil Mass in the Bradican Room. Please see the bulletin for more details about Middle and High School Youth Ministries, including our weekly Small Groups and other upcoming events.

fleur cross logo Our Parish Life Ministry Fair weekend is coming up on September 16 & 17. Please take advantage after Mass to visit with ministry leaders and representatives outside under the tents about various ministries and choose one for your commitment this year.

fleur cross logo The Diocese is hosting a pilgrimage to the National Shrine of Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton and the National Shrine Grotto of Our Lady of Lourdes in Emmitsburg, MD, on October 7th. Saint Bernadette will be providing transportation if there is enough interest. There is a $30 fee to help defray the cost of the bus. Space is limited. You can sign up here or call our parish office for more information. To learn more about the pilgrimage, visit the Diocesan website. 

 

 

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 3 September 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

This week, I spent some time just thinking about Saint Peter. We’ve had a lot of readings about him at Mass lately. It is Peter who suddenly says,” You are the Christ, the Son of the Living God,” and just two chapters later, on Mount Tabor, he seems to forget what that means. Even with Jesus’ Glory visible, he wants to “collect” Jesus, Moses, and Elijah and keep them safely in tents. He tells Jesus, “I will never leave you,” and Jesus tells him that before morning, Peter will have denied him three times. Remember, however, Peter didn’t just disappear into the night. He cared. Maybe Jesus’ rebuke to Peter when he had cut off the soldier’s ear at Jesus’ arrest was still stinging. Peter was definitely a man of action. We forget that he was the only one who defended Jesus with the sword against the soldiers Judas brought to take Jesus away. Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water, even if for a short time, before his fear got the better of him. Peter is complicated, and he is the one that Jesus chose for the foundation of his Church.

In the Gospel today, Jesus is predicting his own passion and death one of the several times he does so on this their final trip to Jerusalem, and Peter exclaims, “God forbid, Lord! No such thing shall ever happen to you!” Jesus calls him Satan and an obstacle to him. I wonder if I could have figured it out earlier or if what was about to happen would have been impossible to imagine. We can easily look back on the facts and make judgments.

I always try to find art for the bulletin cover from all genres and periods that is meditative and represents the Tradition. Nobody ever painted “Get behind me, Satan” because (I think) it is hard to reconcile. Jesus does not offer that reconciliation and mercy to Peter until after the resurrection: up until that time, I imagine, Peter is torn apart with guilt and grief, wishing that he had acted differently when the time came to acknowledge Jesus. But he denied him at the house of Caiaphas. Finally, the restoration of their friendship happens when Jesus approaches Peter with the words, “Do you love me?” Peter does, and Jesus knew it all along.

The painting on the cover of the bulletin this week is a marvel. Peter and John are running to the tomb: they have just heard that Jesus is risen; he is not at the tomb. It was painted in the year my mom’s mother was born.

I do not know this artist, but I think I will study him. Eugène Burnand is apparently famous in Switzerland and France but not well known anywhere else. He knew Peter. Look at Peter’s face. It is a confusion of hope, regret, and dread of how Jesus will receive him now, after what he did and didn’t do. What is the one left in charge to do now? “Upon this rock...” He is running to the tomb to find out.

~~ Pope Francis has declared September (until the Feast of Saint Francis on October 4) the “Season of Creation,” a time for us to reflect on God’s gifts of life and how we are to care for the life of holy creation in all its forms. Watch the bulletin and our social media for upcoming activities and events.

Also, RCIA starts next week. Be sure not to get a late start!

The Lord be with you,

 

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 27 August 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

The Synod on Synodality is a subject that most people think they can’t get their minds around. This is principally because synodality is not a word that the Church has used seriously for centuries. It is still very much alive in the ecclesial life in the Churches of our sisters and brothers in the East, both Eastern Catholic as well as Orthodox.

It is based on this idea that, as we have become the Body of Christ, the Body of Christ has a voice that should be listened to. To not listen is to say we don’t really believe that it is real in the first place or that membership might be a voice, but no vote. So why say anything?

Pope Francis is trying to return the Church from an institution of a monologue to a living Body that is in dialogue. Dialogue requires two things: the admission that the “other” actually might have something worth hearing and the openness to hear it. Change is something that is directed by the Holy Spirit when we are together. He doesn’t work in our isolation because, ultimately, we will not agree when our humanness moves him aside. There can be no dialogue without both speaking and hearing.

The whole idea that there needs to be a Synod on Synodality itself underlines the fact that we, as a Church, are not familiar or even comfortable with these premises. The recent “listening sessions” last year seemed to illustrate this: the perfunctory listening happened, and the results for dioceses were condensed into a few pages and passed on to Rome. Boxes checked, we have moved on to more important things.

Mainly, what we heard from those who were speaking is that the Church is either not doing what she should be doing or doing it badly. True, it was not a complete dialogue – there was only listening, right? The next step is that we must look at what was said and prayerfully determine if we seek healing. I guess that is the agenda for those who are participating in October.

I was thinking about this a lot this week. It is easy to say the Church is failing in its mission. The parish is not providing what we need. Our children and youth are leaving the faith. There is a crisis of basic Catholic teachings, and our adults don’t know what they don’t know.

We all agree on what the Church or parish should be doing. But the deeper question is: Who is the Church? Who is the parish?

It is you.

We have homeless people living behind our brand-new Whole Foods. We have people living outside the sacraments just because they don’t realize they don’t have to. We have alienated too many people by demanding conversion before offering mercy and compassion. We have so much outreach we might be doing but don’t have a building to do it in.

At the time I write this, we begin teaching our children religious education program classes this weekend, and eight classes will not be able to start because we don’t have adults to teach them. Let’s own this, Body of Christ!

The Lord be with you,