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Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 02 July 2023

Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the 13th Sunday of Ordinary Time

 

fleur cross logo Registration for 2023-2024 Religious Education classes is now open. Click here to sign up today.  Registration will close on August 18, and the first classes of the new year will be on Sunday, August 27, and Monday, August 28. Contact the Religious Education Office if you have questions about registering your children.

fleur cross logo All High Schoolers are invited to join us for our first High School drop-in this Wednesday, July 5th, from 6:30-8 pm in the youth room. We’ll be having a ping pong tournament and ice cream sundaes. Please see the bulletin for details about summer drop-ins for middle schoolers and high schoolers throughout the summer!

fleur cross logo Please join us for Coffee and Donuts in our new Parish Life Center space next Sunday, July 9th, after the 9 am and 11 am Masses. Come share fellowship in our new space. Weather Permitting.

fleur cross logo There are no 7 am Masses the week of July 10th.

fleur cross logo The parish office will be closed on Monday, July 3 & Tuesday, July 4, for the Independence Day weekend. There will be no 7 am Mass, only a 9 am on July 4th.

fleur cross logo Next week’s second collection is for the Pastoral Solidarity Fund for Africa.

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 25 June 2023

Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the 12th Sunday of Ordinary Time

 

fleur cross logo Registration for 2023-2024 Religious Education classes is now open. Click here to sign up today.  Registration will close on August 18, and the first classes of the new year will be on Sunday, August 27, and Monday, August 28. Contact the Religious Education Office if you have questions about registering your children.

fleur cross logo Father's Day Novena of Masses begins Sunday, June 18th. 

fleur cross logo Our parish office will be closed July 3 & 4 for Independence Day weekend.

fleur cross logo Phase II of our parish Capital Campaign, “Behold, I Make All Things New,” is well underway. Even before the in-pew commitment weekend last weekend we had received over 383 gifts totaling nearly $2.1M! If you have not yet done so, please commit to a sacrificial pledge or gift. We thank you for your generosity. As you know, we hope to complete this $3M+ pledge process by the end of June, so we ask you to prayerfully consider what you can do for our new Parish Life Center. Our community life is in your hands!

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 25 June 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Last weekend we hosted in our gymnasium the mid-Atlantic gathering of Pure Land Buddhists for their Thrice Yearning Ceremony. About 300 people came and prayed for three full days. I was able to be present and observe a number of their devotions. There were dharma talks, time for personal repentance for all the things that serve as obstacles to union with the divine, and exercises of single-mindedness which purify the soul and prepare it for rebirth in the Pure Land. This is an element of Buddhism that is a little outside “mainline” Buddhism, this concept of heaven. I find that their ideas of faith and types of prayers aren’t that different from ours.

The Grand Master, who was from Queensland, Australia led the retreat, and abbots and nuns were present from Vietnam, China, Malaysia, Taiwan, Tibet, and here in the United States. We were invited to lunch with the Grand Master one of the days and he spoke about his desire to begin a new international interfaith dialogue with all religions, as Pope John Paul II, and later Pope Benedict XVI, did with the Assisi gathering. I talked about one of the most meaningful dialogues I have ever attended, maybe ten years ago now, between Catholics and Buddhists in Taiwan on the topic of Nonviolence. There, I presented a paper on Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s contribution in the United States alongside Ghandi, Archbishop Tutu and others, and Rev. Dr. King’s dream of the Beloved Community.

All of this is coming together in my mind as I write this letter today on June 19th. Our Buddhist friends did not know the story of Juneteenth and why it is a holiday. Imagine, if you will, you are a slave and you learn that your masters have withheld the news of emancipation and your freedom from you for two years. Suddenly the message of freedom brings about a mixture of anger and joy. What suffering the slaves endured, and our culture still lives the effects of it today! But it is sadly the story of inhumanity that has unfolded everywhere over the centuries as some people in their pride or fear have declared other humans as less than human.

The readings at Mass this morning (Monday of the 11th Week of Ordinary Time) just happened to be the readings for the day and could not have been more perfectly chosen for the theme of nonviolence. Nothing is coincidence. St. Paul: “We cause no one to stumble in anything, in order that no fault may be found with our ministry; on the contrary, in everything we commend ourselves as ministers of God, through much endurance, in afflictions, hardships, constraints, beatings, imprisonments, riots, labors, vigils, fasts [I add firehoses, dogs, lynchings]; by purity, knowledge, patience, kindness, in the Holy Spirit, in unfeigned love, in truthful speech, in the power of God with weapons of righteousness at the right and at the left.” Jesus in the Gospel today: “You have heard it said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, offer no resistance to one who is evil. When someone strikes you on your right cheek, turn the other one to him as well. If anyone wants to go to law with you over your tunic, hand him your cloak as well...” Do not respond to violence with violence.

Our Buddhist friends will return next year and, as I suggested, we will in-
volve our parish family more in dialogue and sharing with them in happiness.

The Lord be with you,

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ June 18, 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

There are a couple of topics that are on my heart for my weekly letter this week.

First, something happened this weekend, maybe my own level of awareness is changing, but I was talking with Priscilla (our organist) after the 5 pm Mass on Sunday evening, and she noticed it, too. There was a quality of our participation at both the 11 am Mass and 5 pm Mass that seemed literally mystical. There was clarity. Our assembly’s – your – engagement in the prayers and singing was profound. And I just wanted to thank you.

The music was especially beautiful last weekend. This weekend will be the final Mass for the 11 am Mass choir as they go on summer break. Thanks, choirs; because of you, we can become more present to God through the beauty you provide as you lead us into deeper prayer.

Liturgy is the birthplace of community, and something extraordinary happened last weekend. I want to encourage us always to go deeper.

We heard in the daily readings today (Monday, as I am writing this) Saint Paul described God at the beginning of his second letter to the people of Corinth as “the God of compassion and encouragement.” It struck me that God knows what we need most to thrive, and he does this with compassion and encouragement, two things that everyone needs most to remain faithful, and maybe we don’t usually operate with these as our foundational principles. To be honest, as the Church, we could use a lot of improvement. Compassion when we struggle, encouragement when we try to do better. Judgment is too often the reaction we have to one another.

I also want to express my gratitude to all of you generous people in the parish. It seems like we are doing a lot of asking for money right now (I wouldn’t say I like doing it, but we are in a capital campaign that the parish will not do for another 30 years, probably), but our asking should be overwhelmed by our thanking. Our weekly offertory continues to stay constant, but on top of this, you have provided more than $5 million in pledges and gifts over the past five years for capital development. You always show up faithfully and quickly to support the Bishop’s Lenten Appeal this year for $580,000. We just got a thank you letter from the Catholic Charities Christmas Collection – you gave $47,000! To date, the Oblate Sisters of Saint Francis de Sales’ Africa missions have received over $60,000 from you. You have delivered nearly 28,000 pounds of food to the Saint Lucy Food Drive in the past year. Not to mention tuition assistance and the other funds you provide to support our parish school.

You are amazing, and I don’t say that enough. Thank you, thank you. You have shown me what it is to be compassionate and encouraging, and we find our hope in your goodness.

The Lord be with you,

Streaming Masses and Announcements Sunday, June 18, 2023

Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the Eleventh Sunday of Ordinary Time

 

fleur cross logo Registration for 2023-2024 Religious Education classes is now open. Click here to sign up today.  Registration will close on August 18, and the first classes of the new year will be on Sunday, August 27, and Monday, August 28. Contact the Religious Education Office if you have questions about registering your children.

fleur cross logo Father's Day Novena of Masses begins Sunday, June 18th. 

fleur cross logo All are warmly invited to Taizé Prayer on Monday, June 19, at 8 pm. Come pray for Christian unity in our community and the world.

fleur cross logo Our parish office will be closed July 3 & 4 for Independence Day weekend.

fleur cross logo Next week’s second collection is for School Tuition Assistance.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ June 11, 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

It is a season of change: graduations, weddings, new employment assignments, and deployments. For many people, this can be a great source of anxiety, but I like to think of what a good friend of mine always said. It’s definitely going to be different. But it just might be better.

I used this in a reflection with our eighth graders at one of their graduation ceremonies last week. Leaving middle school and transitioning to high school involves a lot of tears. But the future’s uncertainty can be just as much a source of hope as worry. And as people of faith, although worry can be very real, hope is certain. Pope John Paul I, though he was only pope for about a month, gave his first and only three Wednesday audiences with concise and complete teachings on faith, hope, and love. He said we can be certain to be hopeful. First, God can do anything. Second, he loves you perfectly. Third, he always keeps his promise.

At times of change, rather than trying to concentrate on what you don’t know (which is a completely useless pastime), why not reflect on what God’s promises actually are, known to us in both his words and his actions. He went to a lot of trouble to bring us home. He still would have sent his only Son to become one of us and die on the cross so that we might rise with him even if you were the only person on this earth. “I don’t deserve that,” you might say, and that is true. It isn’t because I did anything to deserve it. It is just what God is. Complete love.

We tend to complicate this with human judgment, judging both ourselves and others. If I don’t deserve it, you probably don’t, either. And then I might be able to decide that somebody deserves it even less than I do. You can see where this goes, and why the world is in such a mess. People are always trying to be something else because they desire the love that is already given but doesn’t realize it. They haven’t learned to recognize it and receive it.

The simple peace that comes with the knowledge of this bedrock divine love is all we need to carry us through the most difficult times, times of uncertainty, or change, knowing that we are not left to save ourselves. It has already been lovingly accomplished.

This love, which of course is the Holy Spirit, the bond of love that unites the Father and the Son as well as all of us, is the foundation of the Body of Christ we celebrate today. The feast of Corpus Christi today is the celebration of the communion we know in the unity of God’s love. Communion is the path of unity in God’s life, as we enter into the life of the Trinity as members of the Son, in the Body of Christ.

The Lord be with you,

Streaming Masses and Announcements Sunday, June 11, 2023

Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ (Corpus Christi Sunday)

 

fleur cross logo Mark your calendars: we will celebrate and thank Father Rich for serving our parish as he prepares to start his new assignment at the University of Mary Washington. The parish will host a Farewell Celebration for Father on Sunday, June 11, from 2-4 pm in the Gym.

fleur cross logo Thank you to everyone who has made a gift to the capital campaign. Please consider a contribution or pledge to our “Behold, I Make All Things New” campaign.

fleur cross logo Registration for 2023-2024 Religious Education classes is now open. Click here to sign up today.  Registration will close on August 18, and the first classes of the new year will be on Sunday, August 27, and Monday, August 28. Contact the Religious Education Office if you have questions about registering your children.

fleur cross logo Mass cards for the Father’s Day Novena of Masses are available in the vestibule or parish office. Our Fathers will be remembered at all Masses for nine days starting Sunday, June 18. Please return your envelopes by Friday, June 16.

fleur cross logo Sunday is the Feast of Corpus Christi. Please join us for a procession and benediction of the Blessed Sacrament following the 5 pm Mass.

fleur cross logo Next week’s second collection is for Diocesan retired priests.

fleur cross logo All are warmly invited to Taizé Prayer on Monday, June 19, at 8 pm. Come pray for Christian unity in our community and the world.

fleur cross logo Our parish office will be closed Monday, June 19th, for the federal holiday.

fleur cross logo Next week’s second collection is for Parish & facilities maintenance.

Streaming Masses and Announcements Sunday, June 4, 2023

Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the Most Holy Trinity Sunday

 

fleur cross logo Mark your calendars: we will celebrate and thank Father Rich for his service to our parish as he prepares to start his new assignment at the University of Mary Washington. The parish will host a Farewell Celebration for Father on Sunday, June 11, from 2-4 pm in the Gym.

fleur cross logo Thank you to everyone who has made a gift to the capital campaign. Please consider a contribution or pledge to our “Behold, I Make All Things New” campaign.

fleur cross logo Registration for 2023-2024 Religious Education classes is now open. Click here to sign up today.  Registration will close on August 18, and the first classes of the new year will be on Sunday, August 27, and Monday, August 28. Contact the Religious Education Office if you have questions about registering your children.

fleur cross logo Mass cards for the Father’s Day Novena of Masses are available in the vestibule or parish office. Our Fathers will be remembered at all Masses for nine days starting Sunday, June 18. Please return your envelopes by Friday, June 16.

fleur cross logo Next weekend we celebrate the Feast of Corpus Christi. Please join us for a procession and benediction of the Blessed Sacrament following the 5 pm Mass on Sunday, June 11th.

fleur cross logo Next week’s second collection is for Diocesan retired priests.

 

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ June 4, 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

 

Saint Paul writes about the fruit of the Holy Spirit in his letter to the Galatians, chapter 5. “The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.”

Notice – as I have only recently – that the singular word “fruit” is used for these nine symptoms. Unlike the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit, which work together to bring us fully into the life of the Holy Trinity, once received, the Holy Spirit’s effects are one unity manifested in us. It would seem that you can’t have one without the others. They are nine attributes of a godly life, a life led by the Spirit, contrasted by Paul in the same chapter as “acts of the flesh.” When a person accepts Christ as Savior, they receive the power of the Holy Spirit to overcome the effects of original sin on human nature and develop the character of Christ. And the character of Christ is marked by the fruit of his Spirit.

In Catholic theology, we believe that a sacramental character, an indelible spiritual mark, is imprinted by the sacraments of baptism, confirmation, and holy orders. This doctrine was expressed by Saint Augustine of Hippo in his Religious Controversies (c. 400), and was dogmatically defined at the Council of Trent in the 16th century. By these, we are conformed literally to the person of Jesus Christ and brought into full communion as members of his Body in the eucharist.

Being members of Christ is sometimes misunderstood as something like being a member of a country club, an elite group of those who are chosen. Rather, it expresses that each of us are actually members: hands, feet, organs, liver? Without each, the body cannot fully function. Everything we are depends on each other and our relative health. It is the Holy Spirit that animates the Body, as a soul, because he is the Spirit of Jesus who has received everything he has from the Father.

You see where I am going with this. In the character received in sacraments, we are not individually recipients of this fruit, as if some kind of reward. We are brought together into a unity of many persons in one Christ, in the same way the Holy Trinity must be three in one. We are transformed in the person of Christ, the Son of God, as I have preached so often this season, from those who are made by God into those who are begotten by God. We are essentially changed in such a way that only God can accomplish it. And it happens through the sacraments.

Are there other ways in which God can accomplish this work of our redemption? Of course. God cannot be limited from pouring out his love, his Spirit, over all creation. And there are other ways hearts can respond to his love. We have been given the infallible path of the sacraments to follow our Shepherd, where he leads us, into the arms of the Father, with his gentle, nailed hands.

Today on Trinity Sunday, we are not here for a theology lesson, however. This is the celebration of the life to which we have been called, a life already begun, that looks forward to that day of perfect love and beauty.

 

The Lord be with you,

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ May 28, 2023

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

On this Pentecost Sunday, consider the Holy Spirit as love shared itself in the life of the Trinity with the Father and Son. We are made in God’s image, and love shared becomes the rule of our life, even in the way we approach an encounter with each other. Imagine how different the world would be if we did not stop first to decide whether the other is worthy of our love, but if we led with love. I was reminded of the Rule of Saint Benedict (53) and found this amazing Benedictine commentary from the Christ in the Desert Monastery website as our guide to letting the Holy Spirit be the creator of our bonds of friendship and love with each other:

53. All guests who present themselves are to be welcomed as Christ, for he himself will say: I was a stranger and you welcomed me (Mt 25:35). Proper honor must be shown to all, especially to those who share our faith (Gal 6:10) and to pilgrims. Once a guest has been announced, the superior and the brothers are to meet him with all the courtesy of love... All humility should be shown in addressing a guest on arrival or departure. By a bow of the head or by a complete prostration of the body, Christ is to be adored because he is indeed welcomed in them.

Everyone—everyone—is received as Christ. Everyone receives a warm answer—on the phone, at the door, in the office. Sarcasm has no room here. Put-downs have no room here. One-upmanship has no room here. Classism has no room here. The Benedictine heart is to be a place without boundaries, a place where the truth of the oneness of all things shatters all barriers, a point where all the differences of the world meet and melt, where Jew and Gentile, slave and free, woman and man all come together as equals.

But whatever happens to the heart is the beginning of a revolution. When I let strange people and strange ideas into my heart, I am beginning to shape a new world. Hospitality of the heart could change domestic policies. Hospitality of the heart could change foreign policy. The hospitality of the heart could make my world a world of potential friends rather than a world of probable enemies.

Yet, Benedictine hospitality is more than simply thinking new thoughts or feeling new feelings about people we either thought harshly of before or, more likely, failed to think about at all. Benedictine hospitality demands that we open our lives to others as well... the extra effort, the extra time, and the extra care that stretches beyond and above the order of the day. Real hospitality for our time requires that we consider how to take the concerns of the poor, the hungry, the lonely, and the dying into our own lives.

It is not enough simply to change our minds about things or to come to feel compassion for something that had never touched us before or even to change our own way of life to let in the concerns of others. Real hospitality lies in bending some efforts to change things, to make a haven for the helpless, and to be a voice for the voiceless. Hospitality means we take people into the space that is our lives and minds and our hearts and our efforts. Hospitality is the way we come out of ourselves. It is the first step toward dismantling the barriers of the world. Hospitality is the way we turn a prejudiced world around, one heart at a time.

 

The Lord be with you,