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Please join us for an evening “We Care Here: Facing the Opioid Facts Together” in the church on Wednesday evening, November 6 at 7:30pm. A light reception will be served beginning at 6:30pm in the church vestibule for those who have sent an R.S.V.P. See page 7 for more information.Please join us for an evening “We Care Here: Facing the Opioid Facts Together” in the church on Wednesday evening, November 6 at 7:30pm. A light reception will be served beginning at 6:30pm in the church vestibule for those who have sent an R.S.V.P. See page 7 for more information.
November 5 is Election Day. As before, the Virginia Catholic Conference has prepared an issues sheet which can help you form your conscience to guide your vote. You can find the two-page issues sheet in our October 13 bulletin, or at the Virginia Catholic Conference website, www.vacatholic.org. Please review the materials for your consideration.
World’s Finest Chocolates! Our School Chocolate Sale will run October 25–November 17 after all weekend Masses. The school receives 50% of the funds raised and will use the funds to support our school’s arts, academic, technology, and sports programs, as well as other events during the school year. Thank you for supporting our school!
Saint Bernadette 2019-20 Concert Season kicks off Friday evening, November 15 we will host the Capital Wind Symphony under the direction of George Etheridge at 7:30pm, followed by a reception.
Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,
A recent USA Today article quotes a 2016 study from the nonprofit Public Religion Research Institute that 39 percent of young adults (ages 18 to 29) are “religiously unaffiliated.” That has nearly quadrupled since 1986, when only 10 percent of young adults identified that way.
They continue: “But as churches across the faith spectrum grapple with how to reach young adults, the Catholic Church already has a built-in group it can look to for growth: Latinos. According to Gallup, while the Catholic Church has suffered from declining attendance in the U.S., the overall percentage of Catholics has held fairly steady, largely because of the nation’s ballooning Hispanic population.
“Of the 51 million Catholics in America, 34 percent are Latino. That’s an increase from 2007, when Latinos made up 29 percent of the church. Catholic leaders expect this number to keep growing in part because of continued birthrate and immigration trends: The U.S. census projects that by 2045, the nation will be 'minority white.'
“‘Latinos are the emerging majority in the Catholic Church,’ says Alejandro Aguilera-Titus, assistant director for Hispanic ministry for the U.S. Catholic Church. ‘As Hispanic ministry goes, so goes the Catholic Church in the U.S. in the decades to come.’”
As I was speaking at the Spanish Mass last week, for whatever reason, it struck me as one of the most beautiful prayer experiences I’ve had in quite a while. The music was particularly beautiful and the lyrics were genuine and touched my heart; the assembly was singing full-out. There is a warmth there that is not common to daily experience. There is a deep love of God that is often very emotional, almost palpable.
It was also the first time I preached a homily in both Spanish and English, responding to the requests of a number of parents who spoke concerns for their children attending the Spanish Mass but not being fluent in Spanish. The community, they feel, is in danger of losing the young people. We are in a time of great change—I sometimes have to pause and realize how things may not turn out the way we always thought they would, and with regard to how much more divided we are now than we were in nearly every aspect of society and culture. I feel a profound gratitude for the aspects of faith which do not change with regard to love and service, and that these values cut across anything that might try to divide us in the Church. There is no place for division here. For one thing, we know that it is Jesus’ will to heal and bind us together; there is only one who divides, and he has no place here.
There has been some discussion, maybe a little criticism, about our choices for music in the past few weeks, we have been including a little more Spanish in English Masses which seems to have been a cross for some. This was for a couple of reasons. First, we need a repertoire for the Masses when we come together in both English and Spanish. Practically, our parish is one-fourth Spanish speaking, and we often are able to only have one Mass, for example, on Holy Thursday. There is not an allowance (or a need) for a second Mass. Other feast days for the parish and community often must be inclusive of the whole parish. Our parish feast, Our Lady of Guadalupe (Patroness of all the Americas) and the Easter Vigil are great examples when we must worship authentically as who we are. If we practice a little, these bilingual events will become natural to us.
But I think an even more important reason for Spanish elements at English Masses is simple hospitality. We are one parish, and all should be welcome to all Masses. If we don’t provide signs of hospitality we ourselves are contributing to division. As families transition with their primary language at home, it is important for them to have a place to go as they grow into the Church.
I was once accused, many years ago, of discriminating against Spanish speaking parishioners because I didn’t provide special services to them, services which we didn’t offer to the parish at large. It struck me as odd at the time, because it would be discrimination to not serve, consider, and include everyone the same. As much as we sometimes might not want to admit it, God has no favorites. Not according to righteousness, not according to wealth or status, nor language, nor race, nor country of origin. All sons and daughters of one Father. And the home has to stand for all to enter and abide.
Pope Francis said something in his homily last weekend that stuck with me, when he was speaking about the Pharisee and the tax collector parable. It’s worth looking up, his homily at the close of the Pan-Amazon Synod of Bishops (27 Oct) and what he calls “the religion of the self” in which we canonize ourselves. How often in the sad history of our world have we introduced division between us and “strangers,” even to the point of denying their humanity! If we alone are righteous, then that doesn’t allow space in our system even for God, because as the Author of righteousness, he requires more space than we can afford.
God bless you.
World’s Finest Chocolates! Our School Chocolate Sale will run October 25–November 17 after all weekend Masses. The school receives 50% of the funds raised and will use the funds to support our school’s arts, academic, technology, and sports programs, as well as other events during the school year. Thank you for supporting our school!
Please join us tomorrow, Monday, October 28 at 8pm for this month’s TAIZE Prayer Service. Invite all your Christian friends to join us in this beautiful, peaceful ecumenical prayer service in the tradition of the Taizé Community in France.
All Saints’ Day Mass schedule (holy day of obligation) October 31 Vigil at 7:30pm, November 1 Masses at 6:30 and 9am, Noon, 6:30pm in English and 8pm in Spanish. The All Souls’ Day Mass schedule includes 9am and noon on Saturday, November 2 for all our deceased. All Souls’ Novena of Masses - Include the names of deceased family or friends in envelopes which will be placed near the altar during nine days of Masses. To participate please fill out one of the envelopes with your donation and return them to the parish office before November 2.
November 5 is Election Day. As before, the Virginia Catholic Conference has prepared a side-by-side comparison of the positions of the candidates in this year’s Virginia U.S. Senate race. Called "Know the Positions of the Candidates for U.S. Senate," this resource can be found at vacatholic.org. The issues appear in alphabetical order for informational purposes only and do not represent a complete list of issues that may be of importance to Catholics. The Conference neither supports nor opposes candidates for public office. A Spanish translation of the candidate comparison is also available.
Please join us for an evening “Facing the Opioid Facts Together” in the church on Wednesday evening, November 6 at 7:30pm. A light reception will be served beginning at 6:30pm in the church vestibule. Be sure to R.S.V.P.
Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,
It's not too early! Mark your calendars for our 2020 School Auction on March 25!
The Theme this year is "60 Years of Wisdom and Grace" honoring, on our 60th Anniversary since the founding of Saint Bernadette School, both the legacy of the Sisters who started the school, the Daughters of Wisdom, and the Grace of God which has held us together all these years.
We are calling on the entire parish, as we did for the first time last year, to come for a nice dinner, bid on silent and live auction items, and by way of a very fun evening, help us in our school's operating budget to excel in good works and academic excellence. You will be invited to consider donating goods or services, especially larger items that might set off a bidding contest like time share vacation destinations or collectibles. Perhaps you have a business that can donate products, time or services which will be desirable to many. Are you an artist or craftsman? Consider creatively how you might be able to contribute to the school in ways that do not necessarily deplete your needed income.
Auctions are great opportunities for you to become visible to the community, too, especially by taking advantage of advertising spaces in our auction website and program book. Last year we served dinner to about 300 attendees, and this year we hope to reach an even wider audience through the use of online bidding.
At any rate, our committees are forming and our plan of action is in place. Our goal is to at least equal last year's amazing success, to net as close to $90,000 as possible. If you are on fire to get involved in planning or production of the school Auction, "60 Years of Wisdom and Grace," please talk to me or our principal, Barbara Dalmut! Or, if you have somebody's autographed jersey and can part with it, it will serve a wonderful purpose here.
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There is a reflection I would like to share with you this week after participating again in the Lord of the Miracles feast day last weekend. Somebody showed be a YouTube video of the procession in Lima, Peru, and I was amazed. The crowds go on as far as you can see. This enormous bier carrying the richly decorated sacred image with candles and flowers is carried by dozens of faithful, taking turns, one group after another, just to get a chance to carry the cross. You can see a photo of ours on the front cover of the bulletin this week.
My core and my legs are still sore from helping carry the bier in the procession last weekend. It was so incredibly heavy. If 24-30 people are struggling to carry it on their shoulders, you can get a sense of how much this thing must weigh.
It is powerful to think about participating in the Lord's carrying of his cross in this much later and symbolic way. You feel in your own body maybe a glimpse of the suffering he endured. Moving forward so slowly, slowly. The crowd is following, keeping the slow pace.
But what is really more powerful that this is the fact that this is something that we can never carry alone. We would be totally crushed. But together, as the community slowly advances the journey, we can accomplish the task at hand. It is possible when we are together.
These kinds of intense devotions are found all over the world in cultures which have retained these remarkable expressions of deep faith as we witness in countries all over the world, even here. There is a noble dignity to it that you cannot deny, something that we must not lose to the conventions of pluralism and indifference.
I could only imagine, as I was feeling the crushing weight of this cross, how the Lord had to have been pleased with his little flock, his pequeño rebaño.
God bless you.
Our Capital Campaign for Community, "Make All Things New" continues. The private gifts phase has raised $2.7M toward our goal of $5M. Now into our public phase, we have increased our pledge amounts to 3.1M. We appeal to you to truly support this opportunity for depth and growth for our community. Hopefully you had an opportunity to really pray about how important this parish is to you and how we need space to be together. If you have not yet filled out a commitment card, please offer a pledge amount over time. Our society needs to put Church back into the center of its life.Our Capital Campaign for Community, "Make All Things New" continues. The private gifts phase has raised $2.7M toward our goal of $5M. Now into our public phase, we have increased our pledge amounts to 3.1M. We appeal to you to truly support this opportunity for depth and growth for our community. Hopefully you had an opportunity to really pray about how important this parish is to you and how we need space to be together. If you have not yet filled out a commitment card, please offer a pledge amount over time. Our society needs to put Church back into the center of its life.
The 49'ers will be selling White House Ornaments after all Masses this weekend and next. Look for their table in the vestibule of the church.
ECHO’s popular Yard Sale will be held on Saturday, October 26 from 8am-Noon in the gym. Proceeds of the sale benefit ECHO whose mission is to help local people who are experiencing emergency as well as those who have long-term low income needs.
Our 4th Monday TAIZE Prayer Service is next week, Monday, October 28 at 8pm. Please invite all your Christian friends to join us in this beautiful, peaceful ecumenical prayer service in the tradition of the Taizé Community in France.
All Saints’ Day Mass schedule (holy day of obligation) October 31 Vigil at 7:30pm, November 1 Masses at 6:30 and 9am, Noon, 6:30pm in English and 8pm in Spanish. The All Souls’ Day Mass schedule includes 9am and noon on Saturday, November 2 for all our deceased.
All Souls’ Novena of Masses - Remembrance envelopes in which you may include the names of your deceased family or friends are available in the vestibule of the church and parish office. Envelopes will be placed near the altar during the Novena of Masses. To participate please fill out one of the envelopes with your donation and return them to the parish office before November 2nd. Questions, please contact the parish office.
Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,
This week I have been on my annual retreat. Priests are required to do a week-long retreat each year, something we probably wouldn't find the time to do if it weren't required. All of us have a great need to step away for a few days and try to get an objective look at life and especially our life with God, to determine a course of action and ongoing conversion. We should figure out some way to include a retreat in our yearly plan, even if just a day or two to devote to evaluating and moving forward with life. That is primarily why we schedule a 40 Hours Parish Mission each year during Lent (this year will be Sunday evening, March 8 through Tuesday evening the 10th) when the parish stops regular activities and focuses on God.
It is all the daily stuff that can tend to shut down your spiritual life. Things that seem more tangible, confronting us in ways that can be so distracting and contrary to the plan of God in our life. We know that what he offers is complete love and mercy, but we can defer even our thinking about this because there are too many things pressing on us now at the present moment. We can circle back around to God later, right?—or will we? It will always be the present moment. Maybe we will never get around to it.
Some people I know have a space dedicated in their house only for this. A quiet corner with a chair and table and a Bible or spiritual book. Even in this way you can designate a space into which you enter, and decide to leave everything else outside, even for ten minutes a day. The fixer upper shows on TV would have you believe that a "retreat" is a spa bathroom that reminds you of the beach, or a basement cave where you can go and watch football. The retreat we need is a place where one meets with God.
What if married couples were to plan time together like this before troubles begin? Or families who need to just unplug and be together? I am grateful, though it will be hard to leave daily parish life with all its needs behind, for the opportunity to go on retreat.
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Another update on the Our Lady of Lourdes window in the sanctuary. The diocese recommended a company to work with us in resolving this issue of the window, which has now been dark for over a year. As I have said before, replacing the lights behind it requires that it be removed from the wall. Now we are told that this particular window was installed without restoration (I had thought that the Saint Joseph and Lourdes windows were purchased at the same time, but apparently were not) and the leading has deteriorated and there are gaps between stained glass and leading that have made it very fragile. The consultant told us that if we move it it could dissolve all over the floor.
This might be more than you want to know, but I found it interesting. Really old stained glass was made by casting lead into the filigree pattern of the window, then glass was added. Today lead is extruded to fit between the pieces of cut stained glass. But in the late 1800s and early 1900s there was a lot experimentation with adding alloys to the lead, a practice that has been discontinued as the alloys proved to fail with time.
The Lourdes window will need to be re-leaded which will take some time, as well as being remounted and retrofitted with a new lighting system. While one is being done, we need to do both or we will be undergoing the same process twice. The cost estimate for this is $75,000.
I'm not sure how to proceed. We ran it by the finance council last week and they suggested we spend the money, but it is not budgeted and we need to keep our savings in case it is needed with the school this year. Additionally, I was hoping that what unexpected donations might come in would be used to construct proper tiered risers for the choir area, a project that would really have a positive effect on our worship of God. We will discern this, and I will be in contact further with the diocese to see what alternatives we have.
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As I write this article the noon Mass and parish picnic have just ended and we are breaking down the area behind the school. These moments of our being together as a parish are so important to the life of the Church. Vital, I would say, otherwise we fall into the trap of thinking of faith individualistically. Since the picnic will be already last weekend when you read this, we want to thank all the many people who worked to make our annual picnic a terrific event, including all the folks that brought food, who served food, who set up and took down tables and chairs, our great PTO who provided games and rides, and to our parish and school staff who provided a beautiful witness of teamwork and family.
Family is great. Family is even greater when we work together with a shared objective and produce a wonderful event that is so significant. Thank you!
God bless you,