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Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 25 December 2022

STREAMING SUNDAY AND WEEKDAY MASSES

Please note that the heating system at the church is only partially operational due to a mechanical failure on one of the three units. We apologize for the inconvenience. We are working with our mechanical contractor to get the issue resolved as soon as possible.

CELEBRATING the CHRISTMAS SEASON
 
SATURDAY, DECEMBER 24:  
CHRISTMAS EVE VIGIL MASSES
4:30pm, 8:30pm (preceded by the Children's Choir at 4pm and the Contemporary Choir Prelude at 8pm)
Midnight Mass at 12am (preceded by Saint Bernadette Choir Prelude at 11:15pm) 
4:30pm Mass will also be live-streamed
 
SUNDAY, DECEMBER 25:  
CHRISTMAS DAY MASSES 
Midnight Mass, 7, 9, 11am  &  
1pm (en español)
There is NO 5pm Mass on Christmas Day
 
SUNDAY, JANUARY 1
Mary, Mother of God
 We will follow the regular Sunday Mass schedule for the parish
 
SUNDAY, JANUARY 8: 
EPIPHANY of the LORD 
We will follow the regular Sunday Mass schedule for the parish


Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the Christmas Vigil Mass
Worship Aid for Midnight Mass and Christmas Day

 
fleur cross logo The parish offices will close on Friday, 23 December at 1pm and will remain closed until Wednesday, 28 December. The office will also be closed on Monday, 2 January and reopen on Tuesday, 3 January at 8:30am
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fleur cross logo The Saint Bernadette Christmas Bakes Sale was a success raising over $ 3,900 dollars for the Capital Campaign. A big thank you to our bakers and goody makers, our generous volunteers who served and you our parishioners who support the event! 

fleur cross logo There will be no 7am morning Masses the week of January 2, 2023.

 

Upcoming Second Collections:

December 25 - Parish Facilities and Maintenance

Merry Christmas ~ Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 25 December 2022

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette, 
 
Wishing you deep, abiding joy this Christmas!  We are reminded at the birth of Jesus that, regardless of how dark and cold the night might be, there is still birth, birth we would never imagine as likely or even possible.  We must wait in joyful hope for God’s Epiphany.
 
The mystery of divine life dwelling in our limited, fragile humanity is one of those concepts that provides a lifetime of reflection.  The burning bush encountered by Moses in the desert foreshadows God’s grace-fire—infinite truth, perfect goodness and terrible beauty—united, come to dwell in us with all our doubt, sinfulness and shortcomings.  We burn but are not consumed, a fire that refines but does not degrade, but rather divinizes us.  
 
The Fathers of the Church in the first centuries sought to express this mytery that God became Man so that Man might become God, charged with his life as much as we depend on breath, or blood in our veins.  When the priest adds water to the wine in the chalice he prays, “By the mystery of this water and wine, may we come to share in the divinity of Christ, who humbled himself to share in our humanity.”  God “stoops down,” the Fathers say, to call back a broken race.  Many Fathers wrote that the Shepherd comes out, leaving the 99 sheep behind (ranks of angels in heaven), to seek and save the lost, helpless sheep that is Man.
 
Christmas is a call to the same humility that the Son of God reveals as intrinsic to the nature of God, though he is all powerful, all knowing, all holy, all merciful, all perfect.  Humans might see this as a great irony, and think that humility might be the opposite of all these things.  But Jesus reveals that divine humility lies at the heart of who God is, and therefore, God is love.  He is constantly emptying himself out of love.  All he is is oriented toward the Beloved:  The Son in the Holy Spirit, and all that God has begotten by his loving Word, us, called into his life.  The new Adam sets out to redeem the first Adam, who in his pride tried to hide from his Creator, who knew him better than he knew himself.  Only humans would consider humility as humiliation; an act out of love can never be a humiliation.  
 
Saint Paul instructs the Philippians: “Have among yourselves the same attitude that is also yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not regard equality with God something to be grasped.  Rather, he emptied himself, taking the form of a slave, coming in human likeness; ...he humbled himself, becoming obedient to death, even death on a cross” (Phil. 2:5-8).
 
This year our world needs this humility, this loving kindness and concern for others more than ever.  And I pray that this might be your deep and abiding joy today and in the year to come.  God bless you, and merry Christmas.

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 18 December 2022

STREAMING SUNDAY AND WEEKDAY MASSES

CELEBRATING the CHRISTMAS SEASON
 
SATURDAY, DECEMBER 24:  
CHRISTMAS EVE VIGIL MASSES
4:30pm, 8:30pm (preceded by the Children's Choir at 4pm and the Contemporary Choir Prelude at 8pm)
Midnight Mass at 12am (preceded by Saint Bernadette Choir Prelude at 11:15pm) 
4:30pm Mass will also be live-streamed
 
SUNDAY, DECEMBER 25:  
CHRISTMAS DAY MASSES 
Midnight Mass, 7, 9, 11am  &  
1pm (en español)
There is NO 5pm Mass on Christmas Day
 
SUNDAY, JANUARY 1
Mary, Mother of God
 We will follow the regular Sunday Mass schedule for the parish
 
SUNDAY, JANUARY 8: 
EPIPHANY of the LORD 
We will follow the regular Sunday Mass schedule for the parish

 


Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the Fourth Sunday of Advent  

fleur cross logo The parish offices will close on Friday, 23 December at 1pm and will remain closed until Wednesday, 28 December. The office will also be closed on Monday, 2 January and reopen on Tuesday, 3 January at 8:30am.

fleur cross logo Join us for our montly Taizé Prayer Service, Monday, December 19 at 8pm. Come pray for Christian unity in our community and in the world. All Christians are warmly invited; invite your friends!

Upcoming Second Collections:

December 25 - Parish Facilities and Maintenance

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter 18 December 2022

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

In our liturgical prayer, one of the most common petitions we make in the Mass is a plea for unity. There are so many references to this prayer it might be possible overlook them:

"...bless these gifts, these offerings, these holy and unblemished sacrifices, which we offer you first for your holy catholic Church. Be pleased to grant her peace, to guard, unite and govern her throughout the whole world..." Eucharistic Prayer I

"Humbly we pray that, partaking of the Body and Blood of Christ,
we may be gathered into one by the Holy Spirit." Eucharistic Prayer II

"...grant that we, who are nourished by the Body and Blood of your Son and filled with the Holy Spirit, may become one body, on spirit in Christ." Eucharistic Prayer III

"Lord Jesus Christ... look not on our sins but on the faith of your Church, and graciously grant her peace and unity in accordance with your will."

Unity is a precious gift and something that is very fragile, as we often can find individuality more desirable, especially in a world where it seems you could easily get ignored or lost. It is important to stress that Mass is the place where this will never happen. All are vital, the engagement of all is needed to make our offering as one Christ to the Father. There is a radical equality that disarms the divisions which can come from a need for identity. Our identity is Christ himself.

On several occasions over the years I have given a talk at the beginning of the school year, when kids complain about wearing uniforms or being limited from particular hair styles or make up. People use fashion or styling often to define their image, compared to others. Imagine how I would stand out on the altar if I suddenly dyed my hair blue!

I believe you would agree that my hair would be a problematic distraction. Why? Because my role is not to stand out. It is unite all of you in a sacred gathering and collect your offerings and prayers into one expression of faith and worship.

I always tell the kids that if I look out on a class with uniforms, it is not the diversity of clothes and styles that I see: it is their faces.

This is the difficulty with individualism, we can focus on how we are different and forget how united we truly are. It is more than just school uniforms, however. Nationality and race can become reasons to divide that are contrary to the prayer for unity that we need to pray together.

We need to pray for the courage to look beyond differences and recognize the heart of each other as the same as mine, in need of each other and made in the likeness of the heart of Jesus, himself.

Unity is hard work, and we may not be able to see a clear path of how it will come about, but we can commit to not become an obstacle, avoid judgment and welcome each other to accompany one another on a way forward that brings us together. It is for this reason Jesus is coming! He will show us the way. Come, Lord Jesus!

The Lord be with you,

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 11 December 2022

STREAMING SUNDAY AND WEEKDAY MASSES


Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the Third Sunday of Advent  

fleur cross logo Starting Friday, December 2, we will begin to have Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament every Friday during Advent in the church, 7 - 8:30pm.

fleur cross logo  You are invited to a special bilingual Mass honoring Our Lady of Guadalupe, Patroness of the Americas and the unborn tomorrow evening. Procession begins at 7pm, Mass at 7:30pm followed by reception in the church vestibule.

fleur cross logo Please join us on Wednesday, December 14 for our parish Advent Penance Service. Confessions begin at 6:30pm and we will have 16 priests. Please mark this date in your calendar and celebrate the sacrament on this date, as opportunities will be limited in the days up to Christmas.

fleur cross logo The Saint Bernadette Bake Sale is December 10 & 11 after all Masses in the Church vestibule. Please consider signing up to donate an item to the bake sale. All proceeds go towards our Capital Campaign. 

fleur cross logo Give the gift of life! Donate blood! INOVA Blood Services will be providing donation services on Saturday, December 17, 2022 from 8:30am to 2:30pm in the school cafeteria. Please mark your calendar.

fleur cross logo Join us for Taizé Prayer, Monday, December 19 at 8pm. Come pray for Christian unity in our community and in the world. All Christians are warmly invited; invite your friends!

fleur cross logo The Knights of Columbus will be selling Christmas trees in the lower parking. Please support the charitable work of the Council. The lot will be open from 5pm to 9pm on weekdays and 9am to 9pm on weekends.

Upcoming Second Collections:

December 11 - CATHOLIC CHARITIES CHRISTMAS COLLECTION
December 18 - Parish Special Needs
December 25 - Parish Facilities and Maintenance

 

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 11 December 2022

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Last week I reflected in my letter about the difference between liturgical and devotional prayer and how, perhaps, the confusion we have today about liturgical styles and the division that results might be the effect of so many who actually consider the Mass today as a private devotion. Devotional prayer, private prayer, is something relational that happens between me and God; in liturgical prayer the me exists only as a part of us. Liturgical prayer is the relationship between God and his people, and his people form the Body of his beloved, only-begotten Son in his offering of himself to the Father. It is corporate (corporeal), incarnate.

Several people actually commented this past week, that they and were surprised to learn that the Mass wasn't meant to be an individual prayer just between them and God. One of them said, "Now I understand the emphasis on gestures and singing!"

The Mass isn't our prayer to change, or add anything to (before or after), or omit any elements. Divine worship is given to us through the teaching Magisterium of the Church, one of the three fonts of Revelation which are Sacred Scripture, Sacred Tradition, and the living, teaching office of the Church, where we acknowledge that the Holy Spirit still inspires and works actively through his Church when we are gathered in Jesus' name. To deny this authority of the Magisterium, or to consider Tradition as a thing of the past, is a misunderstanding (Dei Verbum, chapter 2).

I have often used an image when I teach or write about the living Tradition of the Church. As a student of art and architecture, I loved to study the great architectural tradition of the Church. You can visit so many amazing structures of the Church's rich expression of faith throughout the centuries. You can approach it as a student, or as an admirer, or even as a curious tourist. But you will never understand it fully until you celebrate a Mass in it. The Church cannot be a museum; you can only see the sacred space as it was intended to be when it is used for its true, living purpose.

It worries me that so many people think of their faith as something that they received from their parents and grandparents, a nice thing (or maybe they don't think it's so nice) that they put on a shelf to admire now and then. Or ignore. Or even to venerate. This living Tradition of the Church is not an object to be treasured. It is the context in which our life relationship with God takes place. It is the being with God that is important, not the style of architecture where that happens. Sure, people will no doubt have plenty of opinions about the fashion, but the substance must not be confused with the vanity of personal preference.

It is also worrisome that the emphasis on the self in approaching the prayer of the Church liturgy as a devotional practice tends to absolve us of recognizing our responsibilities for one another. The person in the pew next to us might be just a nuisance, really, a distraction. We want to sit as far apart from each other as possible and respond to the prayers so that we can only hear ourselves... this is not a living Tradition but rather dry bones waiting to be reconstituted into a living Body.

The Lord be with you,

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 4 December 2022

STREAMING SUNDAY AND WEEKDAY MASSES


Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the Second Sunday of Advent  

fleur cross logo Starting Friday, December 2, we will begin to have Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament every Friday during Advent in the church, 7 - 8:30pm.

fleur cross logo Representtives from the Office of Migration and Resettlement Services will join us after the 9 and 11am Masses this weekend to provide and overview of the mission, service opportunities and resources available through their program.

fleur cross logo Concerts at Saint Bernadette presents Advent Lessons and Carols, Sunday, December 4 at 7:30pm. Saint Bernadette Music Ministry, featuring our adult and young people’s choirs, and Lector Ministry present hymns, choral music and scripture readings from the rich treasury of the Advent Season. The event is free and open to all. A free-will offering will be accepted for ECHO.

fleur cross logo Thursday, December 8 is the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception, Patroness of our nation. It is a Holy Day of Obligation for all. We will offer Masses on Wednesday evening with a Vigil at 7:30pm, and on Thursday at 7 and 9am, noon, 6:30pm, and 7:30pm in Spanish.

fleur cross logo Please join us on Wednesday, December 14 for our parish Advent Penance Service. Confessions begin at 6:30pm and we will have 16 priests. Please mark this date in your calendar and celebrate the sacrament on this date, as opportunities will be limited in the days up to Christmas.

fleur cross logo Give the gift of life! Donate blood! INOVA Blood Services will be providing donation services on Saturday, December 17, 2022 from 8:30am to 2:30pm in the school cafeteria. Please mark your calendar.

fleur cross logo Keep Christ in Christmas! The Knights of Columbus will be selling Christmas cards in the vestibule after all Masses on December 3-4. You may contact Mike Candalor at mcandalor@cox.net to get information or arrange another opportunity to view/purchase cards.

fleur cross logo The Saint Bernadette Bake Sale is December 10 & 11 after all Masses in the Church vestibule. Please consider signing up to donate an item to the bake sale. All proceeds go towards our Capital Campaign. 

fleur cross logo Beginning next weekend the Knights of Columbus will be selling Christmas trees in the lower parking. Please support the charitable work of the Council. The lot will be open from 5pm to 9pm on weekdays and 9am to 9pm on weekends.

Upcoming Second Collections:

December 4 - School Tuition Assistance
December 11 - CATHOLIC CHARITIES CHRISTMAS COLLECTION
December 18 - Parish Special Needs
December 25 - Parish Facilities and Maintenance

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 4 December 2022

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Of all the discord in the Church, the most unfortunate division for me is the battle that is being fought over the Mass, the one thing that can bring unity and peace to us. I've thought a lot about the crisis we are experiencing in the Church and thought I might think out loud.

First, a good friend of mine says that, in the scene of the last judgment in Matthew 23, there is no mention of being sheep or goats based on the manner of worship, only about how we treat each other. In that area, we are not doing so well.

The problem clearly stems from a misunderstanding of who we are at the Mass. When the reforms of Vatican II (which did happen, by the way) were implemented, even as a child I remember the confusion which resulted. I remember one Mass when the priest came down to the pews and took a rosary out of the hands of an elderly lady. He had a point, but it was made in every wrong way. Apparently there was not a catechesis which effectively explained why these things happened.

For a population that largely did not know Latin (not even to mention Africa, Asia and the rest of the Americas) the Mass had become, for many, a passive experience, something to be observed. It was the priest's Mass. The altar was his space, the sanctuary was off limits to non-clerics. For many faithful, the time of the Mass was spent offering unrelated private devotions (hence, the rosary debacle).

I think that many people today still consider the Mass a private devotion. Me and God. People have decided they don't have to fully participate. Singing is optional. Responses are made silently. The Church needs to promote an attitude of authentic commitment rather than compliance.

Private devotional prayer is very different from liturgical, corporate prayer. The Mass isn't our prayer. We don't get to choose variations or omit parts we might consider less important. We are configured by baptism and initiation through the sacraments into the Body of Christ. As his Body, we literally are he as he offers himself to the Father in the moment of eternity as the Son of God, which transcends all historical time and geography. We are not a group of "me"s performing rituals as individuals. It is corporate, embodied in us, incarnational. We provide the hands and voices and hearts to allow Jesus' work of salvation to permeate and transform all of creation. The Mass is the fullness of time.

It is so far beyond something that we could invent. We are united by what we do -- most of all in song, but also in words, gestures, and postures which are given to us from the living Tradition of the Church as she seeks Christ's authentic expression of love to the Father in his sacrifice of Holy Thursday and Good Friday, ultimately taking us with him from the empty tomb into a new time and new creation.

Eucharistic Prayer III includes this idea so beautifully and simply: Lord, may this sacrifice of our reconciliation advance the peace and salvation of all the world. Not something we could hope for on our own, it is this prayer that reveals our role in the fullness of time that is the Mass, and our fullness, too.

The Lord be with you,

Streaming Masses and Announcements for the week of 27 November 2022

STREAMING SUNDAY AND WEEKDAY MASSES


Today's Live-Streamed Mass

Worship Aid for the First Sunday of Advent 


fleur cross logo 
Join us for the first in a series of important presentations for parents on Tuesday,, November 29 at 7pm in the church. Our speaker is Dr. Nicole Joseph.

fleur cross logo Starting Friday, December 2, we will begin to have Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament every Friday during Advent in the church, 7 - 8:30pm.

fleur cross logo Representtives from the Office of Migration and Resettlement Services will join us after the 9 and 11am Masses next weekend to provide and overview of the mission, service opportunities and resources available through their program.

fleur cross logo Concerts at Saint Bernadette presents Advent Lessons and Carols, Sunday, December 4 at 7:30pm. Saint Bernadette Music Ministry, featuring our adult and young people’s choirs, and Lector Ministry present hymns, choral music and scripture readings from the rich treasury of the Advent Season. The event is free and open to all. A free-will offering will be accepted for ECHO.

fleur cross logo 
Keep Christ in Christmas! The Knights of Columbus will be selling Christmas cards in the vestibule after all Masses on December 3-4. You may contact Mike Candalor at mcandalor@cox.net to get information or arrange another opportunity to view/purchase cards.

fleur cross logo The Saint Bernadette Bake Sale is December 10 & 11 after all Masses in the Church vestibule. Please consider signing up to donate an item to the bake sale. All proceeds go towards our Capital Campaign. 

fleur cross logo Beginning next weekend the Knights of Columbus will be selling Christmas trees in the lower parking. Please support the charitable work of the Council. The lot will be open from 5pm to 9pm on weekdays and 9am to 9pm on weekends.

Upcoming Second Collections:

November 27 - ECHO
December 4 - School Tuition Assistance
December 11 - CATHOLIC CHARITIES CHRISTMAS COLLECTION
December 18 - Parish Special Needs
December 25 - Parish Facilities and Maintenance

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 27 November 2022

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,
 
The way bulletin deadlines fell for the Thanksgiving holiday today (Friday, Nov 18) is the deadline as well as our last night in Rome.  It has been a good trip, we have spent the last several days around Rome and personally carried all you prayer intentions with us.  
 
Hope your Thanksgiving Day celebrations were warm and meaningful for your families this week.  I know it isn't the case for everyone, especially for those who are dealing with loss or change the holidays can be very difficult.  Please be assured of our prayers if this is a difficult time.
 
I remember one Thanksgiving Day in particular when I was a kid, probably six years old.  We were living still in our first house in Kansas City, Missouri.  Our great aunt who was a Sister of Saint Joseph of Carondelet would come from Saint Louis with my grandparents and one aunt and uncle, pretty much my mom's family.  I remember sitting in the living room that day, it was the first time it had snowed that year, and it was snowing hard.  We were together and inside, warm and safe.  It is a strong memory for me and a feeling that stays with me.  I wish a similar memory for you as we come together for the holiday to give thanks for so much that we have.  We are very blessed.
 
Advent begins, too, the new year of grace 2023.  It is time to take that inventory of what we are thankful for, what we are sorry for and what we plan to do differently in the coming year.  If we don't take that inventory it is not likely that next year will be any different from the current one, and we will not have used God's gift of time for its intended purpose.
 
Once I am back from Italy, we will resume the conversation about extending our capital campaign for a second pledge period to realize our goal of building a parish hall/community center.  We are preparing information materials with plan details, calendars, and budgets so you can see how our plans are developing.  Although there is a considerable amount of uncertainty at the present time, all agree that we need to act as quickly as we can to be able to come up with a realistic plan with realistic goals.  Prices probably aren't going to be coming down or materials more available as time passes; the longer we wait, the more expensive it will become.
 
In the meantime, please don't forget the Catholic Charities Christmas Collection coming up in a couple of weeks.  I'm a member on the Board at Catholic Charities and will share with you some of the amazing work that we are able to do as the Church in northern Virginia.  Every week we turn to Catholic Charities to help us with outreach for financial assistance and care for people -- it is good to have professionals nearby who, through our support, can provide charity where it is needed in the most effective way.
 
All of us at the parish wish you much grace and happiness in the year to come.  Happy Thanksgiving.
 

The Lord be with you,