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Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ June 3, 2018

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,
 
In an ancient homily for the Easter Vigil Mass, those newly received into the Church, the Body of Christ, are encouraged to “come forward, and receive what you are.”
 
This greatest gift that God has given to his Church, his abiding Presence, finds its full meaning in our Communion with that Presence.  Communion requires that we be present, too, so the Presence of God to us can make real that “marvelous exchange”—that we might be one with God in his divinity as the Son of God humbled himself to be one with us in our humanity.  It is an intimacy that only God could make real, yes, but it is a reality that only we can open our hearts to receive.
 
The gift comes with obligation.
 
We read in the Gospels (the synoptic Gospels, Matthew, Mark and Luke) as well as St. Paul’s letter to the Corinthians, an overwhelmingly identical account of the event of Jesus’ institution of the Eucharist at the Last Supper:  While they were eating, Jesus took bread, said the blessing, broke it, and giving it to his disciples said, “Take and eat; this is my body.” Then he took a cup, gave thanks, and gave it to them, saying, “Drink from it, all of you, for this is my blood of the covenant, which will be shed on behalf of many for the forgiveness of sins.” (Mt 26:26-28; cf. Mk 14:22-24, Lk 22:17-20, 1 Cor 11:23-25).
 
That the Eucharist was explicitly instituted by Jesus himself is clear, and has been celebrated unceasingly ever since.  Do this in memory of me.
 
But the Gospel of Saint John gives a further nuance to the “do this” of Jesus.  John doesn’t give the account of the institution at all in his Gospel.  His was the last written Gospel and probably, it is thought, he presumed the the story was so well known and found in the other Gospels that he could provide an account of how Jesus intended for us “do this.”
 
So Jesus paused during the supper, removed his outer garment, tied a towel around his waist, and proceeded to wash the feet of his Apostles.  Upon finishing, he said,  “As I have done, so you must also do.”   The Lord of heaven and earth took the posture of the lowest slave of the house whose job was to wash the filth off of the bare feet of house guests. It is an interesting insight into the sort of priesthood that Jesus had in mind for his Apostles, as we also realize that it was also at this moment that he instituted the sacrament of Holy Orders.
 
In other words, in this Communion of being present to one another, we become his presence, and we must also become the outward sign of Christ to the world.  By serving we literally carry his Presence to the world in our bodies, transformed by his Presence in us.  When one serves another, the one served recognizes Christ in the one who serves him, and the one who serves recognizes Christ in the one whom he is serving.  It echoes the love of God:  The Father begets the Son and sees his perfect likeness in him, and the Son is filled with holy delight and gratitude for his Being Begotten.  The Love that results which, by its nature cannot be contained, is the Holy Spirit that pours forth over all of God’s creation, calling everyone to the unity, purity and clarity with which we were created in God’s image and likeness.  To be less is not to live fully the humanity that Christ has transformed in us.  It is by the same power of the Holy Spirit that the man-made gifts of bread and wine (the fruit of our work, transforming God’s natural gifts of wheat and grapes) are transformed into real Presence of God, and Communion is possible, and all this is possible.
 
It is a gift not intended to stop with us, something that we might claim for ourselves, because it is love, and a lover always must have a beloved to be truly fulfilled.  Christ is ever present, and he takes to the world, through our “yes” to his will, through our loving service of God and others.
 
It was Mary’s “yes” that allowed all this to begin in the quiet of Nazareth, a simple “yes” to God’s will.
 
This is the complete exchange where Eucharist truly becomes perfect Communion:  it is the whole Christ who offers, it is the whole Christ who receives and takes that love to those who do not yet know him, to begin the cycle of Eucharistic love and light again throughout all time and in all places.
 
You and I are formed anew in the light of this truth.  Today let us thank God for the gift of Holy Communion, and for the opportunity to make that love present to others. 
 
God bless you.
 
 

Announcements ~ May 27, 2018

fleur cross logo The Second Collection this weekend is for The Catholic Communications Campaign.  Bishop Burbidge has sent a letter to all pastors to promote this collection, much of which stays here in the diocese, especially this year as the diocese is investigating and implementing more digital and online platforms to keep in touch with people.  Please be generous.
 
fleur cross logo Please join us for our monthly Taizé Prayer Service, Monday, May 28, 2018 at 8pm. Come pray for Christian unity in our community and in the world. All Christians are warmly invited; invite your friends!
 
fleur cross logo Saint Bernadette Parish will be conducting a Summer Hungry Children food collection drive for the St. Lucy Project, a Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Arlington program on June 9/10. Collection bags with a list of requested items will be distributed next weekend.
 
fleur cross logo Red Cross Blood Drive will be held on Monday, June 4 from 3-7pm at Abiding Presence Lutheran Church, 6304 Lee Chapel Road, Burke, VA. For an appointment call 1-800-REDCROSS or visit redcrossblood.org and enter ABIDINGVA.
 
fleur cross logo Saint Bernadette is hosting a Called and Gifted Workshop on Saturday, September 15, 2018. For more information please visit our parish website announcement page for online registration.
 
fleur cross logo Please consider our excellent Catholic School. We invite you to visit our website, stbernpar.org/parishschool, or give us a call at our St. Bernadette School office at 703-451-8696 to learn more, or to arrange for a tour.
Registration is still open for all classes, we hope to see you soon.
 
fleur cross logo SAVE THE DATE! Our Summer Theater Program has contracted our summer musical but it is so new we can’t announce it yet! Still, save the date:  July 25-27, 2018 Performances at Bishop Ireton High School. The show title and other details will be revealed in coming weeks.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ May 27, 2018

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,
 
In the middle of recent construction meetings it has finally dawned on me:  this is actually happening!  It is now time that I can give a sketch of the timeline and what we can expect in the coming weeks.
 
You may have noticed a gravel road that goes up along parish office building on the side of the creek, and some have asked if we are building a second road for school access.  If only we could!  It would make carpool so much easier.  But the land on that side of the property would not be stable to support a roadway.  In this case it is a temporary construction access road to the site of the new, second preschool classroom.  Work on the preschool continues, we have hit a few snags with unexpected situations and permits, but we will be back to full speed shortly and still plan to hit the opening of school deadline.
 
A similar construction road/area will be established in front of the school on the courtyard even as soon as this week.  Final permits are being processed and the first thing to go will be the canopy connecting the gym to the current front door!  We can get started even earlier than the last day of school which is important because - spoiler alert - the school year begins again two short months from closing.  Again, hard to believe. 
 
We will close off Wisdom Hall between the gym and the school offices and begin to tie the steel for the new offices into the existing ceiling and roof of the existing front of the building.  Access to the school will be either through the front gym doors or the doors on the back of the school near the cafeteria and Mrs. Dalmut’s office.  We had a meeting today and will have a great plan for carpool which Mrs. Dalmut will roll out when it is time.
 
Below you can see a floorplan of what we hope to accomplish.  We will add offices for our assistant principal, registrar, counselor and curriculum coordinator, as well as a nice conference room for meetings.  We will upgrade facilities for the clinic and a larger space for the faculty break room, a private restroom for faculty and a public restroom outside the cafeteria doors.  We will also enhance security by adding a separation for after hours between the school proper and the cafeteria and gym, so only those areas are open that are needed.  And the secure foyer will be bright and welcoming, and double the size of the current entrance.
 
It is good to see plans for growth coming to fulfillment.  Once this administrative wing is complete we will begin to make the parish offices more usable.  We will have drawings about that in coming weeks, along with plans for a Capital Campaign to finance these improvements.
 
The phase for the parish offices will follow the school, at which time we hope to have pledges from the Capital Campaign to begin planning some enhancements to the church and a new parish hall.  Watch for details!
 
God bless you.

 

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Announcements ~ May 20, 2018

fleur cross logo Welcome Home ReEntry Program collection is this weekend after all Masses. Please help support our brothers and sister who are rejoining the community. Details about the program and a list of requested items can be found on page 7 of today’s bulletin.
 
fleur cross logo The Second Collection next weekend is for The Catholic Communications Campaign.
 
fleur cross logo Saint Bernadette Parish will be conducting a Summer Hungry Children food collection drive for the St. Lucy Project, a Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Arlington program on June 2-3. Watch the bulletin for a list of requested items.
 
fleur cross logo Red Cross Blood Drive will be held on Monday, June 4 from 3-7pm at Abiding Presence Lutheran Church, 6304 Lee Chapel Road, Burke, VA. For an appointment call 1-800-REDCROSS or visit redcrossblood.org and enter ABIDINGVA.
 
fleur cross logo Saint Bernadette is hosting a Called and Gifted Workshop on Saturday, September 15, 2018. For more information please visit our parish website announcement page for online registration.
 
fleur cross logo Please consider our excellent Catholic School. We invite you to visit our website, stbernpar.org/parishschool, or give us a call at our St. Bernadette School office at 703-451-8696 to learn more, or to arrange for a tour. Registration is still open for all classes, we hope to see you soon.
 
fleur cross logo SAVE THE DATE! Our Summer Theater Program has contracted our summer musical but it is so new we can’t announce it yet! Still, save the date:  July 25-27, 2018 Performances at Bishop Ireton High School. The show title and other details will be revealed in coming weeks.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ May 20, 2018

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,
 
When we prepare those who will receive the sacrament of Confirmation, we always speak about the way Jesus prepared his Apostles for his ascension into heaven and the coming of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost. As he explains to them why he must go, he says not to be alarmed, because his leaving will mean he can send his Holy Spirit, the Advocate to them, who will inform them of what they must do. Under the guidance of the Holy Spirit, he promises them, he will always be with them and they will always have his presence and strength supporting the words and works that they speak and do in his name. Works as great as he himself has done, and even greater than these.
 
God takes all our formation, everything we have learned and realized in our daily lives of prayer and service, and by the power of his Holy Spirit he turns on the switch. Over the years I have been privileged to help people who seem to be “stuck” to discover the gifts that they have already received, but have not been activated by a lack of desire, or a misunderstanding of the active role that we must take in our life with God.
It might be due to a lack of will. He doesn’t do anything without our free will decision to receive him and live in him.
 
It might be due to a lack of formation and an underdeveloped understanding of who God is. We don’t know what we don’t know. I know that most of our Church aren’t really well formed in what  “Catholic” means. Maybe the 60% of Catholics (statistics show) who don’t even believe that God is a personal being capable of being in relationship is due to the confusion of several decades of inconsistent catechesis. That, and an indifference to seek what the Church actually teaches instead of accepting the stereotype of Catholicism that the world likes to pass around. How can we follow moral norms, laws and even participate in authentic liturgical practices if we don’t know what they are?
 
I think about this as I see some people leaving early (a lot of people), sometimes running from Mass. Please don’t misunderstand what I want to say here, I am so grateful that you come to Mass, and encourage you to keep after it. And there are many reasons people need to leave, they have to get to work, or check on their children, or maybe there is an emotional situation where crowds are uncomfortable. Also, there are those who can’t receive Communion for whatever reason and probably have a compelling sense that they don’t need to stay. I have had people tell me that I have no idea how many people come late or leave at Communion time. Actually I do; sometimes I see the church is literally half-emptied by the time we get to the prayer after Communion.
 
My intent is not to reprimand. I only want to say that leaving in the middle of Communion indicates a profound misunderstanding of why we are at Mass. Our music director, David Mathers is writing a piece also for this bulletin about what Communion is really about, and how it necessary for us to be changed in the same way that the bread and wine become the Body of Christ.
 
Remember, we are not called to be Christians, individuals punching time cards and obeying rules (this is the stereotype of us by the world)—we are not called to be Christians, we are called to be Christ. This call is everything, it defines our identity with which we are made, it fulfills our deepest desires to be known. Of course, we all long to be loved, but it does no good for us to be loved as something we are not. Being known is what makes being loved real.
 
I have asked several people lately if there is anyone in the world who completely knows them. No one has said so, even husbands and wives have deep realities that require a vulnerability that may prove too painful. Only God can know us completely, and he does. Bishop Robert Barron says that God is closer to us than we are to ourselves. It is too easy to fool ourselves, but we can’t fool God.
 
If a being’s deepest desire is to be known, then how frustrating it must be to believe in a god who they believe is not capable of relationship! Is it any wonder people don’t participate in Mass, come late, and leave early.
 
I’ve said it here a hundred times—I preached at an ecumenical retreat last weekend and told them that we don’t worship to get anything, only to give. We don’t come to Mass to get anything, only to give ourselves united to Christ, as Christ. But what we receive in return is everything.
 
God bless you.
 

Announcements ~ May 13, 2018

Happy Mother’s Day!
 
fleur cross logo We continue to pray together the Holy Spirit Novena in preparation for Pentecost!  The last 3 days prayers are published in this week’s bulletin for the Novena (the Church’s first and most important novena). Join us at 8:45am before the morning weekday Mass.
 
fleur cross logo The Second Collection next weekend is for our Diocesan Retired Priests. Please consider giving generously. Thank you!
 
fleur cross logo Welcome Home ReEntry Program collection is next weekend after all Masses. Please help support our brothers and sister who are rejoining the community. Details about the program and a list of requested items can be found on page 7 of today’s bulletin
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fleur cross logo Summer Break for Wednesday morning Bible Study. We will not be meeting May 16-September 12.
 
fleur cross logo Red Cross Blood Drive will be held on Monday, June 4 from 3-7pm at Abiding Presence Lutheran Church, 6304 Lee Chapel Road, Burke, VA. For an appointment call 1-800-REDCROSS or visit redcrossblood.org and enter ABIDINGVA.
 
fleur cross logo Saint Bernadette is hosting a Called and Gifted Workshop on Saturday, September 15, 2018. For more information please visit our parish website announcement page for online registration.
 
fleur cross logo Please consider our excellent Catholic School. We invite you to visit our website, stbernpar.org/parishschool, or give us a call at our St. Bernadette School office at 703-451-8696 to learn more, or to arrange for a tour. Registration is still open for all classes, we hope to see you soon.
 
SAVE THE DATE!  Our Summer Theater Program has contracted our summer musical but it is so new we can’t announce it yet!  Still, save the date:  July 25-27, 2018 Performances at Bishop Ireton High School.  The show title and other details will be revealed in coming weeks!

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ May 13, 2018

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Such a time of grace and celebration we have seen these past few weeks as our children receive Jesus in the Eucharist and the Holy Spirit in Confirmation. There is so much going on we can’t get in all that we could include in the weekly bulletin! At times the liturgies seemed a bit chaotic from our location, but I think everyone had a wonderful celebration as we look at the reality of becoming Jesus from different perspectives: being Jesus by receiving him, being called together by his Spirit to be one as he and the Father are One, so that when the world looks at us, they will believe that the Father sent Jesus for them, too. Here is a great photo I took at the Confirmation reception and didn’t have space for last week. We are proud of so many of our young people who were attentive to the call of God and received the grace of these powerful sacraments. This time of the year all the Cardinal red in our buildings becomes Pentecost red.

IMG 2705 cropSpeaking of that gift of the Holy Spirit, the love of God, which conforms us to be the Body of Christ, we have been talking a lot lately about how we need to start seeing ourselves more clearly for who we are. For ever it seems people have come to Mass to observe. Previous generations would easily use the expressions that they went to “hear” Mass, or even worse, “hear Father’s Mass.” It revealed a real disconnect in the common understanding of why we go to Church, indeed, why it is an obligation to go every week. Far from an observance or mere “attendance,” we go to Mass to celebrate our identity as Jesus himself. That is what the sacraments are for: to make us Jesus. Once we are Jesus full stature, as our newly-confirmed brothers and sisters are, we stand in the church, we proclaim God’s glory, we sing and pray no longer as ourselves, but as the Body of Christ. We are Jesus, offering himself to the Father in the Memorial of his crucifixion offering, death and resurrection into which we are caught up—body and soul—yes, in heaven, but something that we truly experience now on earth as a foretaste. We are Jesus.

A friend of mine made a great observation: we need to quit saying things like “I attended Mass,” and need to start saying “I participated in Mass.” It is the whole Christ, head and members, you and me, who celebrate, making the sacrifice of the Mass present here and now. Always here and now, and all the heres and nows from always and in every place. It would make no sense for us to make Eucharist if there were no one to receive him; it would make no sense to have a Body that could not survive without being fed. We care for each other, and our service is Jesus, to the glory of the Father.

I wanted to mention one other change we have made in the process of scheduling Baptisms here at St. Bernadette. From now on, parents will need to have all their paperwork and godparents’ paperwork into the office, and have attended a Baptism class before a Baptism can be placed on the calendar. We have had a great deal of difficulty lately with people who do not wish to comply with Canon Law and force the issue with people coming in from out of town, etc. We don’t write the law, nor to we break it. It may not be followed in other places, maybe even here at St. Bernadette in the past, but we will follow the rules. This means that anyone who wishes to serve as godparent must themselves be fully sacramentally initiated in the Church (Baptism, Confirmation, Eucharist), if they are married it must be a marriage in the Catholic Church according to the Canonical form, be at least 16 years of age, and promise to lead by a good example as a practicing Catholic, to pray for the person they sponsor and be a good influence in their life. They must be registered in the parish where they reside and receive a Sponsor Certificate from their pastor of that parish saying that they are suitable to serve as godparents/sponsors of the person to receive the sacraments. Please tell all your friends, and help everyone remember this new policy.

God bless you.

Announcements ~ May 6, 2018

fleur cross logo “Sunday School for Adults” continues this week in the Bradican Room. Please join Fr. Don for adult faith formation on Sunday mornings,  10-11am.
 
fleur cross logo The Knights’ Project Manger envelope distribution is next weekend, an effort to provide pregnant women with unsure means the cribs and other items they need. Please see page 7 in today’s bulletin for details.
 
fleur cross logo The Second Collection next weekend is for parish special needs. We will be replacing hardwoods around the property that were damaged or lost in our recent storms and will be part of our 8th Grade Earth Day Project. Thank you for your generosity.
 
fleur cross logo Summer Break for Wednesday morning Bible Study. We will not be meeting May 16-September 12.
 
fleur cross logo Red Cross Blood Drive will be held on Monday, June 4 from 3-7pm at Abiding Presence Lutheran Church, 6304 Lee Chapel Road, Burke, VA. In order to ensure adequate Red Cross staff, please make an appointment by calling 1-800-REDCROSS or visit redcrossblood.org and enter ABIDINGVA. Thank you for your support!
 
fleur cross logo Saint Bernadette is hosting a Called and Gifted Workshop on Saturday, September 15, 2018. For more information please visit our parish website announcement page for online registration.
 
fleur cross logo Please consider our excellent Catholic School. We invite you to visit our website, stbernpar.org/parishschool, or give us a call at our St. Bernadette School office at 703-451-8696 to learn more, or to arrange for a tour. Registration is still open for all classes, we hope to see you soon.
 
fleur cross logo SAVE THE DATE!  Our Summer Theater Program has contracted our summer musical but it is so new we can’t announce it yet!  Still, save the date:  July 25-27, 2018 Performances at Bishop Ireton High School.  The show title and other details will be revealed in coming weeks!

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ May 6, 2018

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,
 
As we put together the bulletin each week we often have the same things that run week after week saecula saeculorum.  We find ourselves torn between the need of having something in front of you every week, but running the risk of you stop reading because it’s the same thing over and over.
 
There are a couple things that we need to repeat, but I think we are going to run them less often:
1.  Register your children in religious education for next year.  Do it this now, and then it’s done.  And you get the early bird rate.
2.  Register now for the Called and Gifted Process in September and discover how God is uniquely calling you to serve him and build up the Body of Christ in your own life context through the gifts you have received.  Do it this week, and it’s done.
3.  There is no more beautiful ministry than assisting as a minister of Holy Communion at Mass, yet it seems difficult to find people to serve.  Please call me and we will talk about it.  There are many openings and the diocesan training is this Saturday - the date has sneaked up on us. 
 
In today’s bulletin (pp. 8-9) you will find the first half of the prayers for the Novena to the Holy Spirit. I ask that everyone in the parish participate in this powerful prayer, whether daily in church or at home.  The prayers are simple and beautiful.
We will pray the Novena as a community at 8:45 each morning before the 9am Mass (on Saturday, following the 8am Mass).  This will include Sunday Mass, as well.  I ask that the regular rosary groups kindly make space for this in our church.  We begin on Friday, May 11 and continue for nine days.
 
In 1897, Pope Leo XIII declared that this novena be prayed for the new century “this year and in every subsequent year” before Pentecost, in parish churches (Divinum illud munus).  For whatever the reason, it seems that the Church did not respond.
 
Check out our diocesan Charismatic Renewal website (www.arlingtonrenewal.org/about) - it is a fascinating history.  Pope Leo XIII prayed to the Holy Spirit 1 January 1901 in Rome and that same day at Bethel College in Topeka, Kansas, the Holy Spirit came upon a group of Protestants who had been praying to receive the Holy Spirit as he instructed.  It seems that the first-century Church of Acts 2, with the gifts of praying in tongues and healings, miracles, deliverance and preaching conversion had re-emerged in visible form.  The ecumenical nature of this manifestation of the Holy Spirit cannot be denied, obviously, and we know that it is the will of Jesus Christ that all be one, as he and the Father are One (Jn. 17:21).  The Holy Spirit is the “glue” of the Trinity, the bond of love which brings  life and transcends death, who calls us together in unity of faith and life.
 
Saint Pope John XXIII prayed for this “new Pentecost” preparing for the opening of the Second Vatican Council in 1962:  “Renew your wonders in this our day, as by a new Pentecost.  Grant to your Church that, being of one mind and steadfast in prayer with Mary, the Mother of Jesus, and following the lead of blessed Peter, it may advance the reign of our Divine Savior, the reign of truth and justice, the reign of love and peace.  Amen.”  The Church opened the windows to the world so that the sanctifying power of God’s grace might consecrate it through our priesthood of the faithful giving witness to the universal call to holiness.
 
The Council further taught that Jesus gives both the call and the ability to fulfill his universal call to holiness because Jesus, “sent the Holy Spirit upon all men that he might move them inwardly to love God with their whole heart and their whole soul, with all their mind and all their strength and that they might love each other as Christ loves them.”
 
I included all of this here in the hopes that you will join with the parish in praying this most ancient and important novena.  It is a novena (nine days) simply because that is the amount of time the Apostles were praying together after Jesus’ ascencion into heaven.  For them it was probably intense prayer: “What are we to do now?”  Perhaps it is the same prayer on all our hearts, today.  What are we to do now?  Lord, show us the way.  The Holy Spirit responded dramatically on Pentecost day when suddenly his gifts were poured out on the world through them.  Let us continue to pray the prayer for the new Pentecost here at Saint Bernadette, for consolation and guidance, truth and justice, and love and peace.
 
God bless you.
 

Announcements ~ April 29, 2018

fleur cross logo The Catholic Home Missions Appeal second collection is this week. Right now, over 40 percent of dioceses in the US are considered home missions because they are unable to fund essential pastoral work needed in their communities. Your support of this appeal helps ease their struggle. Please prayerfully consider how you can support this appeal. More information can be found at usccb.org/home-missions.
 
fleur cross logo “Sunday School for Adults” continues this week in the Bradican Room. Please join Fr. Don for adult faith formation on Sunday mornings,  10-11am.
 
fleur cross logo The Catholic Business Network of NOVA Arlington invites you to a Networking Dinner on Thursday, May 10  from 6:30-9pm at Marymount University,  featuring guest speaker Art Bennett. See page 9 for more information.
 
fleur cross logo Saint Bernadette will again host a Called and Gifted Workshop on Saturday, September 15, 2018. Mark your calendars and invite your friends. For more information see page 7. Registration opens May 7.
 
fleur cross logo Please consider our excellent Catholic School. We invite you to visit our website, stbernpar.org/parishschool, if you would like to see what we can do for your child. You are welcome to call our St. Bernadette School office at 703-451-8696 to learn more, or to arrange for a tour. Registration is still open for all classes, we hope to see you soon.
 
fleur cross logo SAVE THE DATE!  Our Summer Theater Program has contracted our summer musical but it is so new we can’t announce it yet!  Still, save the date:  July 25-27, 2018 Performances at Bishop Ireton High School.  The show title and other details will be revealed in coming weeks!