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Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 12 January 2020

Fr Dons Letter

Announcements ~ 5 January 2020

fleur cross logo Religious Education Classes will resume on Sunday, January 12, 2019
 
fleur cross logo March for Life: This year’s March will be held on Friday, January 24, to commemorate the 47th Anniversary of Roe v. Wade. Please plan to join your parish family in this peaceful protest against abortion. Please see page 7 for details
 
fleur cross logo Week of Prayer for Christian Unity is the week of Friday, January 18-25.  Save the date: our northern Virginia ecumenical prayer service with Bishop Burbidge is scheduled for Wednnesday, January 22, here at Saint Bernadette.
 
fleur cross logo Mark your calendars and get the word out! For our next event in the Saint Bernadette Concert Series we will welcome GMU's musical theater ambassadors, The Mason Cabaret, who will present the Great American Songbook:  showstoppers, ballads and duets from the genius of George Gershwin, Cole Porter, Irving Berlin, Duke Ellington, Harold Arlen and more.  Tuesday, February 4 at 7:30pm!
 
fleur cross logo Inclement weather policy:  Saint Bernadette Parish and School follows the Fairfax County School System regarding closings for snow and other inclement weather. If public schools are closed, our school is closed and all activities on the campus for that day and evening are canceled.  Check the parish website for weekend announcements regarding cancellations. You may also call the Parish Office for a recorded message. Please take this policy into account when scheduling use of Parish facilities during winter months.
 

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 5 January 2020

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Our deadline schedules for bulletins this Christmas were very early, and I never had a chance to read the Pope's Midnight Mass homily until we were already opening the boxes of bulletins. It is perfect; please allow me to print it here. It is never too late to be changed by the love of God. Pass this message on.

Happy new year, and God bless you.

“Those who dwelt in a land of deep darkness, on them has light shined” (Is 9:1). The prophecy we heard in the first reading was fulfilled in the Gospel: as shepherds kept watch over their flocks by night, “the glory of the Lord shone around them” (Lk 2:9). In the midst of our earthly night, a light appeared from heaven. What is the meaning of this light that shone in the darkness? Saint Paul tells us: “The grace of God has appeared.” The grace of God, “bringing salvation to all” (Tit 2:11), has shone on our world this night.

But what is this grace? It is divine love, the love that changes lives, renews history, liberates from evil, fills hearts with peace and joy. Tonight the love of God has been revealed to us: it is Jesus. In Jesus, the Most High made himself tiny, so that we might love him. But we can still ask ourselves: why does Saint Paul describe the coming of God into our world as “grace”? To tell us that it is utterly free. Whereas on earth everything seems to be about giving in order to get, God comes down freely. His love is non-negotiable: we did nothing to deserve it and we will never be able to repay it.

The grace of God has appeared. Tonight we realize that, when we failed to measure up, God became small for our sake; while we were going about our own business, he came into our midst. Christmas reminds us that God continues to love us all, even the worst of us. To me, to you, to each of us, he says today: “I love you and I will always love you, for you are precious in my eyes.”

God does not love you because you think and act the right way. He loves you, plain and simple. His love is unconditional; it does not depend on you. You may have mistaken ideas, you may have made a complete mess of things, but the Lord continues to love you. How often do we think that God is good if we are good and punishes us if we are bad. Yet that is not how he is. For all our sins, he continues to love us. His love does not change. It is not fickle; it is faithful. It is patient. This is the gift we find at Christmas. We discover to our amazement that the Lord is absolute gratuity, absolute tender love. His glory does not overwhelm us; his presence does not terrify us. He is born in utter poverty in order to win our hearts by the wealth of his love.

The grace of God has appeared. Grace is a synonym of beauty. Tonight, in the beauty of God’s love, we also discover our own beauty, for we are beloved of God. For better or worse, in sickness and in health, whether happy or sad, in his eyes we are beautiful, not for what we do but for what we are. Deep within us, there is an indelible and intangible beauty, an irrepressible beauty, which is the core of our being. Today God reminds us of this. He lovingly takes upon himself our humanity and makes it his own, “espousing” it forever.

The “great joy” proclaimed tonight to the shepherds is indeed “for all the people.” We too, with all our weaknesses and failures, are among those shepherds, who were certainly not saints. And just as God called the shepherds, so too he calls us, for he loves us. In the dark night of life, he says to us as he did to them, “Be not afraid!” (Lk 2:10). Take courage, do not lose confidence, do not lose hope, do not think that to love is a waste of time! Tonight love has conquered fear, new hope has arrived, God’s kindly light has overcome the darkness of human arrogance. Mankind, God loves you; for your sake he became man. You are no longer alone!

Dear brothers and sisters, what are we to do with this grace? Only one thing: accept the gift. Before we go out to seek God, let us allow ourselves to be sought by him. He always seeks us first. Let us not begin with our own abilities but with his grace, for he, Jesus, is the Saviour. Let us contemplate the Child and let ourselves be caught up in his tender love. Then we have no further excuse for not letting ourselves be loved by him. Whatever goes wrong in our lives, whatever doesn’t work in the Church, whatever problems there are in the world, will no longer serve as an excuse. It will become secondary, for faced with Jesus’ extravagant love, a love of utter meekness and closeness, we have no excuse. At Christmas, the question is this: “Do I allow myself to be loved by God? Do I abandon myself to his love that comes to save me?”

So great a gift deserves immense gratitude. To accept this grace means being ready to give thanks in return. Often we live our lives with such little gratitude. Today is the right day to draw near to the tabernacle, the crèche, the manger, and to say thank you. Let us receive the gift that is Jesus, in order then to become gift like Jesus. To become gift is to give meaning to life. And it is the best way to change the world: we change, the Church changes, history changes, once we stop trying to change others but try to change ourselves and to make of our life a gift.

Jesus shows this to us tonight. He did not change history by pressuring anyone or by a flood of words, but by the gift of his life. He did not wait until we were good before he loved us, but gave himself freely to us. May we not wait for our neighbours to be good before we do good to them, for the Church to be perfect before we love her, for others to respect us before we serve them. Let us begin with ourselves. This is what it means freely to accept the gift of grace. And holiness is nothing other than preserving this freedom.

A charming legend relates that at the birth of Jesus the shepherds hurried to the stable with different gifts. Each brought what he had; some brought the fruits of their labour, others some precious item. But as they were all presenting their gifts, there was one shepherd who had nothing to give. He was extremely poor; he had no gift to present. As the others were competing to offer their gifts, he stood apart, embarrassed. At a certain point, Saint Joseph and Our Lady found it hard to receive all those gifts, especially Mary, who had to hold the baby. Seeing that shepherd with empty hands, she asked him to draw near. And she put the baby Jesus in his arms. That shepherd, in accepting him, became aware of having received what he did not deserve, of holding in his arms the greatest gift of all time. He looked at his hands, those hands that seemed to him always empty; they had become the cradle of God. He felt himself loved and, overcoming his embarrassment, began to show Jesus to the others, for he could not keep for himself the gift of gifts.

Dear brother, dear sister, if your hands seem empty, if you think your heart is poor in love, this night is for you. The grace of God has appeared, to shine forth in your life. Accept it and the light of Christmas will shine forth in you.

Announcements ~ 29 December 2019

fleur cross logo The Solemnity of Mary, The Holy Mother of God is Wednesday, 1 January. This year, The Solemity of Mary is a Holy Day of obligation.  We invite you to join us at one of our Masses:  Tuesday  night Vigil at 5pm, Wednesday at 7:30am, 9am, 11am, and 1pm (in Spanish). There is no 5pm Mass.The Solemnity of Mary, The Holy Mother of God is Wednesday, 1 January. This year, The Solemity of Mary is a Holy Day of obligation.  We invite you to join us at one of our Masses:  Tuesday  night Vigil at 5pm, Wednesday at 7:30am, 9am, 11am, and 1pm (in Spanish). There is no 5pm Mass.


fleur cross logo The parish offices will be closed on Tuesday, December 31 at 4:00pm through Wednesday,  1 January. We will re-open on Thursday, 2 January.


fleur cross logo Don't forget:  RSVP no later than Friday, January 3 for the Night of Stars Volunteer Appreciation on January 11 so we know how much food to prepare.


fleur cross logo Mark your calendars and get the word out! For our next event in the Saint Bernadette Concert Series we will welcome GMU's musical theater ambassadors, The Mason Cabaret, who will present the Great American Songbook:  showstoppers, ballads and duets from the genius of George Gershwin, Cole Porter, Irving Berlin, Duke Ellington, Harold Arlen and more.  Tuesday, February 4 at 7:30pm!


fleur cross logo Inclement weather policy:  Saint Bernadette Parish and School follows the Fairfax County School System regarding closings for snow and other inclement weather. If public schools are closed, our school is closed and all activities on the campus for that day and evening are canceled.  Check the parish website for weekend announcements regarding cancellations. You may also call the Parish Office for a recorded message. Please take this policy into account when scheduling use of Parish facilities during winter months.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 29 December 2019

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,


Pope Francis' General Audience last week was a beautiful reflection on the simplicity and silence of preparing for Jesus' coming.


One of the easiest ways of preparing is setting up a nativity scene in our homes, churches, and public spaces, a tradition which began with Saint Francis of Assisi.  You literally prepare a space for the birth to happen, it provides a regular reminder of why we are here at all, and why it matters.  It isn't a political statement, or some kind of religious show.  It is, rather, a living Gospel that reminds us of God's love:  God comes to us, Pope Francis says, "in order to share our daily lives, hopes and concerns."


I have a friend who puts one of those old-fashioned light-up Jesus, Mary and Joseph sets in his yard and a realtor spoke with him one year about not putting it out because she thought the neighbor's house might not sell if they thought a religious fanatic lived next door.  I asked him how that affected him, and he said, "Well, I guess, I am a fan.  I'm not a fan of snowmen or elves, so I don't put that in front of my house."  If we don't speak about it, then we have not shared the good news that many people simply have not heard.


Yes, God comes to us to share our lives, but also to remind us that he gave us this life, and that he sustains it.  The Son of God became utterly dependent upon us, the Creator on his creatures, to show us how completely dependent we are on him.  And there is a marvelous connection here with the historical fact:  He comes to Bethlehem, and is laid in a manger.


The name Bethlehem, in Hebrew, literally means "House of Bread."  You see the word "Bethel" often, which means House (beth) of El(ohim), or God.  The living bread (lehem) come down from heaven... being found in a manger, a place where his creatures are fed.


The creche in our homes, then calls forth the image of the center of our homes, our dining room and kitchen tables, where we are fed and also are gathered together as a family.  Jesus is the center of our family life, and needs to be called to mind constantly throughout the daily activities of our family.  The creche serves as a reminder for us to pause in the middle of our crazy lives and contemplate what is truly important in life.  "Everything in the nativity scene speaks of the harmony and peace that only Christ the Savior can bring to our lives and our world.  As we gaze upon the lowly scene of Jesus' birth, let us invite him into our hearts, so that each new day can bring spiritual rebirth and preserve us in the joy of Christmas."


I started pulling out Christmas decorations this past week and realized that I already had three small nativity scenes in my office and three in my room at the rectory.  I had not forgotten to put them away, but had let that image be refreshed in my mind throughout the year.  I have been better for it.  (I'm not a fanatic, but I am a fan.)  It is a good thing to be reminded of love as much as possible when it is, sadly, sometimes rare in our world.


For many years in my after-Christmas homilies and articles I have suggested that, when you start to take down the decorations (Christmas season ends on the feast of the Baptism of the Lord, Sunday, January 12, by the way) to consider not putting all of them away, but rather to leave one out, to remind you to let the kindness and goodwill of Christmas leak out into the rest of the year.  Actively call to mind the love we celebrate on this beautiful and unlikely holiday, when the impossible is possible and hope is born again.  


We are still in the active feast of Christmas, the octave of days following Christmas Day when all eight days are Christmas Day.  There is still plenty of time to prepare that space for the birth to happen.  We are nourished, of course, by bread and all the wonderful foods with which we celebrate the holidays:  Might we also hunger for that living bread that comes down from heaven, and having eaten, never need to fear death.
To all who have made our celebrations so moving and beautiful at Saint Bernadette, our staff and volunteers, I wish every gratitude and blessing.  And, as doors open to the new year both with promise and uncertainty, let us find our hope in the witness of a loving God who has gone to great lengths to touch our lives.


Happy new year, and God bless you.

Announcements ~ 22 December 2019

fleur cross logo Please see the bulletin (to the right) or the announcements page of the website for our complete Christmas Masses and concerts schedule for Dec 24-25.Please see the bulletin (to the right) or the announcements page of the website for our complete Christmas Masses and concerts schedule for Dec 24-25.


fleur cross logo Don't forget:  RSVP by Friday, January 3 for the Night of Stars Volunteer Appreciation on January 11  so we know how much food to prepare.


fleur cross logo Our parish offices will be closed from Tuesday, Dec. 24 through Friday, Dec. 27.  Offices will be open with limited services for the weekend beginning Dec. 28.


fleur cross logo There will be no Religious Education Classes the weeks of 22 and 29 December and 5 January. Classes will resume on Sunday, January 12, 2020


fleur cross logo Inclement weather policy:  St. Bernadette Parish and School follows the Fairfax County School System regarding closings for snow and other inclement weather. If public schools are closed, our school is closed and all activities on the campus for that day and evening are canceled.  Check the parish website for weekend announcements regarding cancellations. You may also call the Parish Office for a recorded message. Please take this policy into account when scheduling use of Parish facilities during winter months

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 22 December 2019

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,
 
The Lord is near, so near.  Keep your eyes and ears open to go out to greet him when his visitation happens.  He is coming to each of you.  He is our hope.  I was reading the homily of Pope Francis from last weekend, and it is a great final meditation for our proximate preparation for the coming of Jesus in only a few days.
 
Pope Francis' Angelus, St. Peter's Square, 15 December
 
“Dear brothers and sisters, good morning!
 
“On this third Sunday of Advent, known as the Sunday ‘of joy,’ the Word of God invites us on the one hand to joy, and on the other hand to the awareness that existence also includes moments of doubt, in which it is difficult to believe. Joy and doubt are both experiences that are part of our lives.
 
“To the explicit invitation to joy of the prophet Isaiah: ‘The wilderness and the dry land shall be glad; the desert shall rejoice and blossom’ (35: 1), the Gospel opposes the doubt of John the Baptist: ‘Are you the one who is to come, or shall we look for another?’ (Mt 11: 3). Indeed, the prophet sees beyond the situation; he discouraged people before him: weak hands, trembling knees, lost hearts (cf. 35: 3-4). It is the same reality that in every age puts faith to the test. But the man of God looks beyond, because the Holy Spirit makes his heart feel the power of his promise, and he announces salvation: ‘Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance’ (v. 4). And then everything is transformed: the desert blooms, consolation and joy take possession of the lost of heart, the lame, the blind, the mute are healed (cf. vv. 5-6). This is what is realized with Jesus: ‘The blind receive their sight and the lame walk, lepers are cleansed and the deaf hear, and the dead are raised up, and the poor have good news preached to them’ (Mt 11: 5).
 
“This description shows us that salvation envelops the whole person and regenerates him. But this new birth, with the joy that accompanies it, always presupposes a death to ourselves and to the sin within us. Hence the call to conversion, which is the basis of the preaching of both the Baptist and Jesus; in particular, it is a question of converting our idea of God. And the time of Advent stimulates us to do this precisely with the question that John the Baptist poses to Jesus: ‘Are you the one who is to come, or shall we look for another?’ (Mt 11: 3). We think: all his life John waited for the Messiah; his lifestyle, his very body is shaped by this expectation. This is also why Jesus praises him with those words: no one is greater than him among those born of a woman (cf. Mt 11: 11). Yet he too had to convert to Jesus. Like John, we too are called to recognize the face that God chose to assume in Jesus Christ, humble and merciful.
 
“Advent is a time of grace. It tells us that it is not enough to believe in God: it is necessary to purify our faith every day. It is a matter of preparing ourselves to welcome not a fairy-tale character, but the God who challenges us, involves us and before whom a choice is imposed. The Child who lies in the manger has the face of our brothers and sisters most in need, of the poor who are ‘a privileged part of this mystery; often they are the first to recognize God’s presence in our midst’ (Apostolic Letter Admirabile signum, 6).
 
“May the Virgin Mary help us so that, as we approach Christmas, let us not allow ourselves to be distracted by external things, but make room in our hearts for the One who has already come and who wishes to come again to heal our illnesses and to give us his joy.”
 
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Salvation, Pope Francis says, envelops the whole person and regenerates him.  But the new birth which we await necessarily requires a death.  That death is to ourselves and the sin within us.  Then he says something interesting:  the call to conversion is a question of converting our idea of God.  It is the idea of God that people hold—and not knowledge—that gets us into trouble today.  God for us is often a scapegoat or an unfaithful servant who doesn't give us what we want, or some kind of indifferent bystander who seems to watch his creation (us) go astray.  
 
God can't be far away, he is everywhere.  It is we who distance ourselves by claiming his deficiency.  How many times are his healings the result of one's faith!
 
That is why Bethlehem seems to reset the bottom line.  God is not here to fix our lives any more than could a child in a manger.  He is not here to bring anything but peace and unconditional love, as he places himself literally in our hands expecting our loving kindness.  And he asks our hearts to respond.  From the perspective of our attentiveness to him and his absolute love, our challenges and difficulties are no longer have control.
 

God bless you,

Announcements ~ 15 December 2019

fleur cross logo Tuesday Dec. 17 is our Parish Advent Penance Service at 6:30pm! Plan to join us with many priests present to celebrate the sacrament of reconciliation in English and Spanish.Tuesday Dec. 17 is our Parish Advent Penance Service at 6:30pm! Plan to join us with many priests present to celebrate the sacrament of reconciliation in English and Spanish.


fleur cross logo Please make sure your gifts from the Giving Tree are back in by tomorrow, Dec. 16 so that we can ensure their delivery in time for Christmas.  As always, we thank you for your kind and generous participation

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fleur cross logo The annual Christmas Collection for Catholic Charities was last week: if you did not get a chance to make a contribution last week, please drop it in any collection clearly marked Catholic Charities.


fleur cross logo ALL are invited to join us for our school's annual Christmas Pageant.  All students in preK to 8th grade will participate in carols and the Nativity story presented by the third grade.  Thursday, Dec. 19 at 6:30pm in the Church.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ 15 December 2019

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,


Tuesday this week is our Parish Advent Penance Service and, as last year, I have two important requests for you.


1. If you are still planning to come to confession before Christmas, please take advantage of this opportunity. There will not be a guarantee that we can cover demand later, or at the last minute. It is a great blessing to have so many priests (14!) give up an evening for our parish, and we will accomplish more in one evening than Fr. Rich and I alone could do in over a week. But you must come Tuesday night, 6:30pm.


2. This one is just as important. Come prepared, and do not plan on a counseling session or spiritual direction. Already have done the work of examining your conscience, know your sins, say them, receive a penance and absolution. Our goal here is simple:  serve as many people as is humanly possible as efficiently as possible. One of the reasons people give up on confessions is that they get stuck behind someone (or maybe several people) who take up so much time that there is no more time. I used to be a lay person, remember?  And I remember this one clearly. If you wish to have a longer conversation, plan on another day, or make an appointment with one of us, please.


I am not proposing an irreverent practice of the sacrament, but have done this before. If people know they aren’t going to get a lecture, you’d be surprised how many come back after many, many years. People already know the lecture they should get, that is why they come to confession!  I believe in treating everyone like an adult. As of that evening we will have offered confession already to every student in the school as well as our Religious Education program.


It was not always so:  when I was first ordained I liked confessions because it was an opportunity for me to cast my pearls of wisdom on poor penitents, solicited or not. I made it a point in every confession to admonish, to inspire and to affirm. Eventually I realized that most people don’t actually care.  There is something to be said for the simple acknowledgement that I have sinned, that I can’t fix this without God, and I need certain forgiveness. As I always tell the kids, if you truly forget something, it is okay, because Jesus already knows all of it, even the ones we are indifferent to. The one thing he can’t do for us is say “I’m sorry and I intend to do better from here on.”  Let’s keep it simple and welcome hundreds of people back to the sacrament of Reconciliation on Tuesday.


You will find a valuable resource for examinations of conscience on the USCCB website:  usccb.org/prayer-and-worship/sacraments-and-sacramentals/penance/examinations-of-conscience.cfm

 as well as a guides to confession:  http://usccb.org/prayer-and-worship/sacraments-and-sacramentals/penance/index.cfm. There you will find links to many resources in both English and Spanish.

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Reflection

The apostle Paul reflected in his letter to the Romans how Christ’s coming fulfilled the hopes of patriarchs and prophets and brought joy to his people:

For I tell you that Christ has become a servant of the Jews on behalf of God’s truth, so that the promises made to the patriarchs might be confirmed and, moreover, that the Gentiles might glorify God for his mercy. As it is written: 

    “Therefore I will praise you among the Gentiles;
      I will sing the praises of your name.” 
Again, it says,  
    “Rejoice, you Gentiles, with his people.”
And again,   
    “Praise the Lord, all you Gentiles;
     let all the peoples extol him.”
And again, Isaiah says,   
    “The Root of Jesse will spring up,
     one who will arise to rule over the nations;
     in him the Gentiles will hope.”

 

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. (Romans 15: 8-13)

Rejoice in the Lord! The pain, the suffering, the unfulfilled longings will no longer define us. We have a Savior.  He is coming. Rejoice!

On that day it shall be said to Jerusalem: Do not fear, O Zion; do not let your hands grow weak. The LORD, your God, is in your midst, a warrior who gives victory; he will rejoice over you with gladness, he will renew you in his love; he will exult over you with loud singing (Zephaniah 3:16-17).

The earth will be filled with the knowledge of the glory of the Lord as the waters cover the sea (Habakkuk 2:14).

God bless you,

Announcements ~ 8 December 2019

Christmas GIVING TREE continues this weekend in the Church Vestibule! Our annual tradition of taking tags and returning gifts will benefit Catholic Charities, Christ House, ECHO, Project Gabriel/Project Rachel, ServiceSource, Saint Ann’s Center for Children, Bethany House and Refugee Resettlement!  Gifts must be returned to the vestibule by noon on Monday, Dec. 16.Christmas GIVING TREE continues this weekend in the Church Vestibule! Our annual tradition of taking tags and returning gifts will benefit Catholic Charities, Christ House, ECHO, Project Gabriel/Project Rachel, ServiceSource, Saint Ann’s Center for Children, Bethany House and Refugee Resettlement!  Gifts must be returned to the vestibule by noon on Monday, Dec. 16.


This weekend is the Catholic Charities Annual Christmas Collection for the poor among us.  Please help this most important collection which provides 10% of the annual budget for Catholic Charities.  If you were unable to participate this week, please consider bringing your contribution next week, clearly marked for Catholic Charities.


In addition to the beautiful Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception, we will celebrate a bilingual Mass honoring Our Lady of Guadalupe on Thursday, Dec. 12 at 7:30pm.  The Mass will be preceded by a procession around 6pm, and followed by a reception.