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Announcements ~ December 3, 2018

fleur cross logo Next weekend our Second Collection will be the Catholic Charities’ Christmas Collection. This collection provides for most of our diocese’s Catholic Charities’ annual budget and is vital to our Church’s service to the poor and those in need.  A sacrificial gift of any size will be a gift of Christ’s love and mercy to those in need. We ask you to please be generous.
 
fleur cross logo Advent Lessons and Carols, our annual Advent prayer service is on Tuesday, December 5 at 7:30pm. Saint Bernadette Choirs present Advent songs along with scriptures and hymns for all to sing.
 
fleur cross logo Celebrate the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of Mary, a holy day of obligation. Vigil Masses at 7:30pm on Thursday evening December 7 and Masses throughout day on Friday, December 8 at 6:30am, 9am, Noon, 6:30pm and 8pm (in Spanish).
 
fleur cross logo We will celebrate a special bilingual Mass honoring Our Lady of Guadalupe, patroness of the Americas and the unborn. Visitation and Veneration of the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe in the church will begin at 4pm on Tuesday, December 12 and continue following the evening Mass.  A procession of Our Lady will begin at 6:30pm and all are invited to a dinner hosted by the Knights of Columbus following the Mass.
 
  • Mark your calendars!
    December 15 (Friday): School Christmas Pageant, church
    December 16 (Saturday): Diocesan Simbang Gabi Mass and Reception following, here at 7pm.
    December 18 (Monday): Parish Advent Penance Service, 7pm.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ December 3, 2017

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

This weekend we will begin praying a parish prayer after Communion at all the Masses, a prayer that asks God to help us focus and truly be one in him. These things aren’t going to happen magically, we must ask, and ask again! The text is here on the left. I encourage everyone to use this prayer at the beginning of parish meetings, classes and gatherings as well as, if you would be willing, one of your family prayers at home.

This new Year of Grace 2018 (Happy New Year!) which begins today is filled with opportunity. We ended the last year with a strong message to take inventory and decide what we intend to change this year, and ACT on it! David Mathers, at our staff meeting this week, read a quote for our reflection and I want to put it here for you. It is a quote from Dorothy Day, founder of the Catholic Workers’ Movement and truly remarkable woman: “I really only love God as much as I love the person I love the least.” We were suddenly silent.

There is so much to be done with this gift of new time. The season of Advent is a lesson in patience; not all is done quickly and completely. We are works in progress—as long as we progress by work. Commit with me to cooperate with the creative grace of God in your life this year and not ignore it. Our dignity is in our capacity to conversion.

We are still in need of a few good catechists, particularly for the classes to help the children who are behind in receiving sacraments. I know you are probably tired of hearing the appeal, I am tired of giving it, too, but this is another example of how we can unlock the potential of faith in others. Please contact Martha, our hardworking Director of Faith Formation. By the way, because of her good work, we have several hundred more students in our religious education program and more than three times the number of catechists we had when she arrived. She is a blessing, and good to work with. Please consider this invitation.

Next weekend, finally, is our annual Catholic Charities Christmas collection, the second collection at all Masses. I will be speaking at all Masses except for Saturday (I will be at our annual State LARCUM Conference in Richmond).

Basically, here is the reason everyone needs to contribute to this collection: whether or not we feed the hungry, give drink to the thirsty, clothe the naked, care for the marginalized, visit the lonely—has everything to do with whether or not we have fulfilled God’s plan for us and will be able to spend eternity with him in heaven. It is so simple if you think about it, you have to care for someone else more than yourself.

But we have busy, busy lives. We can’t personally do all these things and keep up with our obligations with family and job. Catholic Charities is the most effective way to accomplish these things, but can only do so with your help. Please, help. We serve together.

God bless you.

 

Announcements ~ November 26, 2017

fleur cross logo The second collection this weekend is for the ECHO (Ecumenical Community Helping  Others).ECHO provides food and financial assistance to help people with short-term emergencies. Please donate prayerfully and generously. More information is available at echo-inc.org.
 
fleur cross logo Advent Lessons and Carols, our annual Advent prayer service, is on Tuesday, December 5, at 7:30pm. Saint Bernadette Choirs present Advent songs along with scripture readings and hymns for all to sing.
 
fleur cross logo There will be no Religious Education Classes on November 26, 27 and 28 in observance of  the Thanksgiving Holiday. Classes will resume on Sunday, December 3 as regularly scheduled.
 
fleur cross logo Please join us tomorrow evening for our monthly Taizé Prayer Service, November 27 at 8pm. Come pray for Christian unity in our community and in the world. All Christians are warmly invited; invite your friends!
 
fleur cross logo Mark your calendars!
December 7/8 (Thursday/Friday): Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of Mary, a holy day of obligation. Mass schedule will be available in the December 2/3 bulletin.
December 12 (Tuesday): Special bi-lingual Mass honoring Our Lady of Guadalupe, patroness of the Americas and the unborn. Visitation and Veneration of the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe beginning at 4pm and following the evening Mass.
December 15 (Friday): School Christmas Pageant, church
December 16 (Saturday): Diocesan Simbang Gabi Mass with Bishop Loverde and Reception at St. Bernadette, 7pm.
December 18 (Monday): Parish Advent Penance Service, 7pm.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ November 26, 2017

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

Next week is the First Sunday of Advent, the new liturgical year of grace. The cycle starts all over again as we live the experience of the Mysteries of Christ as they unfold in the time of our lives. At this time of the year I challenge you again to consider your life as an ascent up a mountain as you drive the upward road spiraling up to the summit. Each year as you come back around to north, to west, to south, to east (I hope) you find yourself at a higher altitude, climbing upward. I first had this reflection as I rode in a little bus up to the top of Mount Tabor in Israel. So clear it was to me that each time we came back around the side of the mountain the view was so much more dramatic I was sure it couldn’t get more beautiful - as I had thought the last time I was on that side one level below. Sure enough, we came back around again and the view was even more beautiful than before.

From a greater vantage point of life experience you can see the same view again with a farther, wider horizon, it is familiar, but it is also new. The events of Christ’s passion, death and resurrection are familiar but somehow compelling in a new way. You can see them so much more in the context of the broad landscape of your life and community. Each year the familiar progression of Jesus’ feasts - waiting and birth, Baptism and public life, impending violence, arrest, passion, way of the Cross, crucifixion and resurrection, post-resurrection life and ascension, Pentecost. Each year if the meaning of the feast hasn’t deepened and you can’t recognize some spiritual growth, it means that nothing is happening. We must do more if this is the case.

Perhaps God’s greatest gift to us, second to his life, of course, is time. Time allows us to reflect, to reform, to change our hearts and turn more toward him and away from ourselves.

So many things are going through my head right now as I type this - I will be returning from Taipei tomorrow (another 25 hour long trip) and we have just completed our Colloquium of Buddhists and Catholics. I’ve made some good friends this week, we have shared commitments to start doing things at our own parishes together. As the weeks follow, no doubt I’ll speak more about this gathering of religious leaders from 18 countries and the ways we hope to end misunderstandings and the xenophobia that is so common today. Our theme was “Buddhists and Catholics Walking Together on the Path of Nonviolence”and we talked about ways we can work together to end so much violence in the world. I presented papers on the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and peaceful protests and the Civil Rights Movement, and a report on what has been accomplished in the work of nonviolence in the United States. Bishops from Europe and Asia were present to give keynotes and moderate panels. Cardinal Tauran, Director of the Pontifical Council on Interreligious Dialogue, came today from Rome to Taipei City for the closing ceremony.

The closing statement of the Dialogue affirmed that violence is manifested not only at the individual and social levels, but also structurally through socio-economic, cultural and media forces. It calls all of us to work together to dismantle the evil that operates in us as well as in our social structures by speaking truth to power, speaking truth in charity, overcoming a culture of “indifference” and building a “culture of encounter,” moving from a “culture of reaction” to a “culture of prevention,” ending the culture of impunity and promoting a “culture of respect,” and social peace starting with inner peace.

Violence cannot be answered with more violence, clearly the message of both Jesus Christ and the Buddha, and reconciliation and unconditional love are the only solutions to the cycle of so many forms of violence today. It begins with parents and their children, it rejects the disrespect that is so characteristic on all levels of our society, from our leaders all the way down. We have to begin to look, to honor, to find a sense of loving kindness and find goodness in every person. It requires self awareness and humility, and a generosity of spirit that considers the other person first and as most important. Otherwise our selfishness will not be overcome by love and violence will continue.

Starting next week at Masses we will also begin to pray the parish prayer which was in your parish Ministry Catalogue and Renewal Handbook. We will reprint it and insert it in the front of our Breaking Bread Hymnals in the pews. We must begin to pray fervently that God’s Spirit will truly shape us into the Body of his Son, worthy to be called his children, and equipped to give witness to his love.

God bless you.

Announcements ~ November 19, 2017

Happy Thanksgiving!

fleur cross logo Parish Offices and Campus will be closed in observance of the holiday Thursday, November 23 and Friday, November 24. The office will re-open Saturday at 9am.
 
fleur cross logo Don’t forget we have only one, very special Thanksgiving Day Mass at 10am when we all gather and give thanks to God. As a sign of our gratitude we have a Food Collection for the St. Lucy Project. Please bring bags of nonperishable foods, keep them with you in the pews and at the Offertory everyone will bring the food forward and it is placed all around the altar as our offering. There will be no 9am Masses on Thanksgiving.
 
fleur cross logo Please join us for our monthly Taizé Prayer Service, Monday, November 27, 2017 at 8pm. Come pray for Christian unity in our community and in the world. All Christians are warmly invited; invite your friends!
 
fleur cross logo Mark your calendars!
 
•December 8 (Friday): Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of Mary, a holy day of obligation.
•December 12 (Tuesday): Special bilingual Mass honoring Our Lady of Guadalupe, Patroness of the Americas and the unborn. Visitation and Veneration of the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe beginning at 4pm and following the evening Mass.
•December 15 (Friday): School Christmas Pageant, church
•December 16 (Saturday): Diocesan Simbang Gabi Mass with Bishop Loverde and reception at St. Bernadette, 7pm.
•December 18 (Monday): Parish Advent Penance Service, 7pm.
 
Advent, Christmas Eve and Christmas Day and Christmas Season schedules will be inserted in the bulletin the weekend of December 2-3.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ November 19, 2017

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,
 
I got my weeks mixed up, I should have written about my trip to Taipei last weekend, when I was away from the parish, rather than planning to tell you about it this weekend, after I will already be back for weekend Masses. But this way I can give you a little progress report.
 
Bishop Robert Barron in his “Mystery of God” series speaks about the music group U2’s song “Where the Streets Have No Name.”  The Catholic lead singer and songwriter, Bono, is referring to the mystical life, when you let go enough to enter into the Mystery of God without your internal GPS. There comes a point when you are no longer in control of the spiritual life (actually, you never were, but never wanted to admit it). Like the time after which the disciples had fished all night without catching anything, and Jesus instructed them not to fear, to put out into the deep. Despite their knowing that it wouldn’t do any good, they followed his instruction—and caught so many fish that they were overcome with the reality of Jesus. Peter reacted, “Depart from me Lord, for I am a sinful man!”  And they left their nets behind and followed him.
 
They weren’t in control anymore. As I write this, I arrived in Taipei night before last, Saturday night, with a delayed landing at 11:15 at night. I had been en route 25 ½ hours. Then baggage claim, then one additional hour’s ride from the airport. My driver, a very nice man, spoke no English. He had a paper with my name on it, I got in his car, what else could I do? Taiwan is very different. They turn off lights at night, there are basically not streetlights or exterior building lights, just the occasional night owl whose window light was still on up in some high rise. It was surreal, I couldn’t tell from any signs where we were going (everything is, of course, in Chinese), except for the infrequent sign that said “Taipei.”  I could make out silhouettes of dense residential and industrial development most of the way, but it was like everyone was gone, building ghosts in the dark. We just kept driving.
 
I was thinking about that song. Here I was where the streets literally had no name for me, not knowing any Chinese at all. Allowing yourself to go into personally uncharted territory is such a strong metaphor for the spiritual life.

Finally we arrived, I guessed, because the car stopped and the driver took my bags out of the trunk. We were in front of a Catholic parish. I was trying to explain to him that I knew our destination was a hotel... although it might be possible that a priest might take in a priest who shows up at his door in the dead of night?  Uncertain. The man had no idea what I was saying, but could tell I was confused. He showed the address to me, 20 something something. I looked at the sign of the church, it was the same address. I pulled up the address of the hotel on my phone where we were to stay that night, it was the same. He shrugged, then walked around to the back of the church, and came back, took my hand and led be back to the entrance of a hotel. It was tucked in behind the church. Maybe there was a sign there somewhere that identified it, I don’t know. But we got where we were going.
 
He had a GPS. I had trust. Both were necessary.
 
We had a wonderful day of dialogue today. The theme is “Buddhists and Christians Walking Together on the Path of Nonviolence,” and religious leaders and theologians from 22 countries are present. There are four of us from the USA. Today a cardinal, several bishops and theologians as well as dharma masters and Buddhist monks defined the problem of violence and where it is found. We began imagining how to rebuild a world where violence is not the cause of an endless cycle of suffering. Tomorrow I will give a paper on the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., and his philosophy and practice of nonviolence. The hospitality I have found here is amazing. When we arrived at the temple there was an army of people waiting at the door with umbrellas so that not a drop of rain fell on us. We felt like very special guests. I think we will order a bunch of umbrellas with the Saint Bernadette logo on them so that we can build an even better greeters ministry to make anyone who comes feel like we are there for them!  The food has been great, but I haven’t turned into a vegetarian yet.
 
I had hoped to share photos but the first powerpoint slide this morning at the conference said we could take photos for personal use, but could not use them for public purposes. I’ll have to do a travelogue when I get home.
 
God bless you.
 
 

Announcements ~ November 12, 2017

fleur cross logo Next weekend our Second Collection is for Campaign for Human Development (no envelope) Thank you for your generosity. 
 
fleur cross logo Saint Bernadette School Open House Wednesday, November 15, 9:30-10:30am. Come and see the difference Catholic Education can make for your child!
 
fleur cross logo If you didn’t have a chance to return your Commitment Card you are welcome drop it collection basket, mail it in, or bring it into the parish office. We have received cards from 178 of our families, just under 5% of the parish community. Everyone is encouraged to make a commitment to living your faith by getting involved in the parish!

 

fleur cross logo Mark your calendars!

    December 8 (Friday): Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of Mary, a holy day of obligation. Mass schedule for December 7-8 will follow.
    December 12 (Tuesday): Special bi-lingual Mass honoring Our Lady of Guadalupe, patroness of the Americas and the unborn. Visitation and Veneration of the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe beginning at 4pm and following the evening Mass.
    December 15 (Friday): School Christmas Pageant, church
    December 16 (Saturday): Diocesan Simbang Gabi Mass with Bishop Loverde and Reception at St. Bernadette, 7pm.
    December 18 (Monday): Parish Advent Penance Service, 7pm.
    Advent, Christmas Eve and Christmas Day and Christmas Season schedules will be inserted in the bulletin the weekend of November 25/26.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ November 12, 2017

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,

One of my favorite themes in the Lenten Season is that we can’t afford to be spectators in the passion, death and resurrection of Jesus. As members of his Body we are in the thick of it: carrying the cross, abandoned, tortured, dying. All of this is so, that we will also know the real resurrection, brightness, unthinkable joy. The sacraments are acts by which we literally enter the mystery of God becoming Man—incarnation and transformation.

But the world doesn’t seem to get the realism of it all. I think in some respects that we have all settled for a discounted Christianity. Young people leave the church because we don’t have lively music and they aren’t entertained. “It is all so solemn...” someone told me, as if that were the problem. Well, it is solemn because something too important is happening for us to be distracted by a good feeling. A good feeling is somehow a cheap substitute and makes it all about me.

In some respects, even this concept of “what a friend we have in Jesus” falls short of the mark. The relationship is so very important, but it doesn’t exist for its own sake: it exists for a purpose—not so that we can stay in a holding pattern of bffs that never come in for a landing, or a kind of perpetual dating. Spiritual adolescence has to come to an end at some point, though many still may think of God in this way. When is the marriage going to happen? If we think of God only as a friend, then we must consider ourselves gods on an even plane, which we know isn’t the case. He is God. The relationship is not so that we can feel good, or loved, or connected. The relationship exists that we might come closer together. Bishop Robert Barron in our Sunday class says that God is beyond anything that may be thought, but also closer to us than we are even to ourselves. To know my true self, I must know myself as God knows me. Everything is contained, discovered, fulfilled in the act of entering into the Mystery of God.

The goal is not the relationship with God, though relationship is the instrument by which we realize our identity: union in God. All of this must be actively received, and requires a great deal of humility.

In my homilies last week I discussed humility. Humility is always our interaction with others. I must approach another as if every person is more important than me. Jesus, the Son of God, became one of us and gave his life in our place, showing that he considered us more important than himself. This is when Jesus is able to break through our weakness and sin: when we finally realize that love is true when the beloved doesn’t deserve it. He loves us anyway.

Faith formation is life-long. As we enter the Mystery of God at varying capacities and different seasons of life our ability to receive God himself deepens and matures. When faith formation is interrupted or is no longer valued the legacy of our faith inheritance is also broken. The old adage “You can’t give what you don’t have” awakens many new parents who realize they have to renew their own life of faith in order to pass something to their children about who they are as immortal beings loved by God. At a meeting this week with pastors and school principals and Bishop Burbidge, we spoke about the real need of parents today to recommit to their own faith formation. The lack of formation has produced now several generations of adults who approach faith and the Church (and Catholic Schools) not as partners, but as consumers.

What are you looking for? Are you looking for anything? God is ready to give it all away to whoever is paying attention and seeking union with him.

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We are going to do something a little different this year, and I would like everyone to participate. On Thanksgiving Day we will have only one Mass at 10am. At that Mass I ask everyone to bring a bag of nonperishable food, an offering of thankfulness. Bring the bag of food into the church, in your pew—don’t leave it in the vestibule. At the time of the offertory (there is no collection), we will ask everyone to bring their bag of food forward and place their offering for the poor and less fortunate on the floor in front of the altar as we sing a song of thanksgiving. After Mass is over, we can take our offerings and load them in a St. Lucy Project van so that Catholic Charities can distribute this food where it is most needed.

Also, I wanted to remind everyone that since Father William left I now have the south confessional in the church. Most people still think that it is a Spanish only—which makes my Saturday afternoon far too easy!

God bless you.

Announcements ~ November 5, 2017

fleur cross logo Help care for elders. “Thanks to support from the Retirement Fund for Religious, we are now in a much better position to care for our elders,“ writes a religious sister. Your donation helps her religious community and hundreds of others provide for aging members and plan for long-term needs. Please give to next week’s Retirement Fund for Religious collection.
 
fleur cross logo Alan Ames will be visiting our parish November 9 and 10. Please see details on page 9.
 
fleur cross logo World’s Finest Chocolates! The St. Bernadette School Chocolate Sale will continue after Masses until November 9. The school receives 50% of the funds raised to support our arts, academic, technology, and sports programs, as well as other events during the school year. Thank you for supporting our school!
 
fleur cross logo Two adult education classes by Fr Don on November 5th:  his series on the “Mystery of God” continues at 10am in the Bradican Room, and a special talk he has prepared and delivered in several cities nationally on “The Reformation 500th Anniversary: Declaration on the Way,” will be at 7pm in the church.
 
fleur cross logo Saint Bernadette School Open House Wednesday, November 15, 9:30-10:30am. Come and see the difference Catholic Education can make for your child!
 
fleur cross logo If you didn’t have a chance to return your Commitment Card you are welcome drop it collection basket, mail it in, or bring it into the parish office. We have received cards from 178 of our families, just under 5% of the parish community. Everyone is encouraged to make a commitment to living your faith by getting involved in the parish!
 
fleur cross logo Parish offices will be closed Friday, 10 November in observance of the Veteran’s Day Holiday.

Fr. Don's Weekly Letter ~ November 5, 2017

Dear Good People of Saint Bernadette,
 
I want to thank our good ushers for doing double duty these past few weeks, taking up the collection as well as counting attendance at Masses at Bishop Burbidge’s request.
 
We had an ushers’ meeting last weekend and they had a lot of great suggestions which we will follow up on. There is some concern that so many people come to Mass late that, perhaps, only about one third of the congregation has heard the introduction which explains for whom the second collection is taken. I have been wondering why our second collections are low, and this may be the reason.
 
We announce the second collection at Mass during the introduction at Mass, as well as print it on the cover of the weekly liturgy sheet (which, I know, a lot of people refuse). We also list it on the last page in the previous week’s bulletin. We will begin to announce it very briefly at the end of the prayers of the faithful, just before the offertory, and see if that helps. Please remember, if a second basket comes to you with a green liner, that is the basket for the second collection. Please be generous.
 
Also, we will close the doors from the vestibule into the church at the beginning of the Liturgy of the Word, not immediately as Mass begins. Realizing that the vestibule is where parents take their children if they are having a noisy moment, this will allow people to hear the Word of God more clearly during the readings and still provide a welcome for those who are arriving a little late. I would like to remind folks in the vestibule that it isn’t a hang-out alternative to the church: you are invited to join us. Also, those who have been remarking about the noise heard from the back rows are invited to move forward in the pews. Our Mass attendance count last month shows that the most attended Mass in October was 794 people - just below half the capacity of our church’s seating. Average attendance per Mass is 467, for a church that seats over 1,600.
 
According to the Mass attendance count last month, we averaged 2,944 parishioners each weekend. With our registration, as of this fall, at 11,917, that means our weekly attendance at Mass is 24.7%, and less than one quarter of our parishioners attend Mass weekly. The Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate (CARA) at Georgetown does regular surveys and has found that the national average of Mass attendance has stayed flat at 22% since 2000, down from 48% in 1970. I had hoped we would be an exception, but I guess we are not.
 
Of course, I find this devastating, as should everyone. We have a lot of work to do to get the Good News back “on the air” in the middle of so much confusion today. We can’t let this get us down, we must see it as a challenge to bring the Church family back to the center of peoples’ lives again. So much to do.
 
I have written once about Mass intentions already, but thought I would mention it again, now that November 1st is past, our Mass intentions book is open again, and the next year is available to those who would like to request Mass intentions for loved ones. There is a limit of two intentions (for persons living or deceased) per person, per month. You may request any date between now and the end of 2018, particularly if you would like to request a Mass on wedding anniversaries, birthdays, anniversaries of death or other special days. We are limiting it to two per person per month because it has been possible for people to request as many as they want, and then the book is full and many have no opportunity. It is my hope that this will make some dates available that might otherwise have been taken. One solution might be to ask for a Mass intention for a family, rather than an individual.
 
Someone suggested that we could add a weekly intention, naming the sanctuary lamp candle in memory of an intention. I hadn’t thought of this in a long while, I remember it from when I was a child. Apparently a lot of parishes do this as another opportunity to remember people at Mass. So we will begin a new tradition here at Saint Bernadette. If you would like to memorialize the sanctuary lamp (the candle next to the tabernacle that communicates the presence of Jesus in the tabernacle), you may call at the office. We are asking a $30 donation for this remembrance, and will list it in the bulletin each week for the coming week.
 
It is hard to believe that we are already coming up on the end of the liturgical year!  December 3 will be the beginning of the season of Advent!
 
God bless you.

 

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